I’m trying to set up my 1st encounter with an independent Provider.  I studied these pages & her site thoroughly before I emailed her.  She came so well reviewed on this site I figured this was one I could trust with some personal info, plus I have nothing to hide. I’m not married & it would be a cinch to verify my employment. I supplied her with all the info requested on her site & then some, even my dogs name. I promise I never once made reference to anything other than “seeing” her on a specific date.  She responded as I’d hoped & encouraged me to contact her when she returned from her trip about a week before my chosen date.  I emailed again when she returned & she asked me about meeting at a different location than I had requested.  I replied that anywhere was fine with me.  I haven’t heard from her since.  I emailed her 2 days later with the same message that I’d be willing to see her at the location she suggested & that I hope I didn’t scare her away… Still nothing.  I wanted to see her tomorrow but that doesn’t look like it’s going to happen. Does she think I’m LE?  Or worse? I thought I might have given too much info the 1st email but she responded anyway - twice. Should I move on? If it weren't for her reviews, I would. Any advice would be appreciated. Dying to get some good Russian…

She's probably just a bit flakey.  It's not unusual for a provider to totally drop the ball and fail to respond to messages, even after responding to earlier messages. Try someone else for now and come back to her later.

Hi Moose, I'm a new hobbiest too, but I'm happy to say my first encounter (and I) went off without a hitch.  Since then, I've gotten no responses to emails to three different providers. I understand and share your frustration in getting the bum's rush from a girl you've got your sights on, but it doesn't sound like you've done anything wrong, so I'd just chalk it up to the vagaries of the hobby.  Keep searching - which I find a hell of a lot of fun in itself. EOM

It's not worth it.  Like someone above said, she's probably a flake.  

This is a business.  If she doesn't want your money, don't chase her to take it.  Always remember:

Never beg anyone to take your money.


Keep that in mind when dealing with these women.