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shesucks 19793 reads
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ok. i need to know exactly what a hobbiest expects to get in a full service session. details..... if he wants to come more than oncs then should i assume he will tip? see i dont expect tipping.  but when someone asks for a little more, i expect the  same as a gesture of respect.  if he doesnt ask about BJ should i tell him on the phone oh by the way i dont to this.. iv had a couple of guys that asked about visiting the "islands" when i said for an extra fee they decliend.  i mean honestly doesnt that count for something extra?
although i am full service there are things i will not do on a call.  but that is also why i do not charge as much as some of the other girls do.  and i dont want to get a bad review because of it. do i suck or what?

1way17183 reads

IMHO, I will help to answer the first question only. That is, "What does a hobbyist expect in a full service session?"

A great attitude and personality go a long way with clients. I would expect for a one hour service (even though I only book two or more hours), DFK (deep french kissing), DATY (down at the Y), BBBJ (bare back blow job) or CBJ(covered blow job) and to pop twice. Now that is what I expect. BE SURE THAT EVERY HOBBYIST HAS A DIFFERENT OPINION!! I wouldn't count how many times a guy ejaculates. Remember, satisfied clients will repeat.

Just because you only do certain things with clients that doesn't mean you'll get a bad review. Bad reviews are much different from reviews that state what a woman wants to do while she's with her client. Just be up front as soon as you determined that he is not LE (law enforcement). Good luck to you. I'm sure you'll do fine. Hey, you care enough to write a post, so that's a good sign.

1way

One of the most important things to me is that it's clear what your boundaries are up front. Problems happen when implied promises don't match the reality more often than when things are clear to begin with.

For example if you advertise an hour of time for a set price don't leave sooner because that's just one potential discrepancy. Good attitude even with narrow boundaries with often get better reviews than a bad attitude with no limits. If the guy pops twice good for him if he doesn't pop then the time is still the time agreed upon (with a little lattitude.)

I also recommend you don't assume he'll tip nor assume he'll leave until you say so. As the service provider you should pay a little attention to the time and gently (very gently) and gradually warn as time is running out. Please don't just jump up and leave at the stroke of the clock. Don't schedule appts. too close together so if he wants to stay or you to stay you have some room to negotiate further.

gwailoh18589 reads

what I expect is bj (covered) and action in any position, preferably with MSOG. Kissing, DFK, DATY are great and always appreciated but I would not pay extra for that. I'm not interested in greek but would understand that an extra is required for that.

IMHO it is not good to start with the basic option and then start declining the extras: if you want DATY then it's 50 extra, if you want this it's 100 extra etc. I HATE that. I think it makes the provider look really cheap. I mean providers tell us please do not discuss their rate - which is understandable, and I never discuss it - so they should not discuss it themselves: yet that's what they do if they start bargaining for extras.

I very much prefer a provider to decide herself on her rules, whatever they are. If I do not like them I never complain but will not see her again. I think you will be compensated for the extras you provide not by a tip or extra money but rather by a repeat customer, who will like your service and will come back.

Also I usually do not tip because of a special act, but rather when I had a great experience. It does not mean necessarily anything exotic, just she had a great attitude and did her best to make me happy within her rules.

just my 0.02

1way19720 reads

"Don't discuss anything", so that when you get to the room she can break out the rules and cash register.

I ask before we meet. I'd rather have someone hang up on me than get burned. But that's just me.

Kara20439 reads

I agree well said   by all of you in fact :)  thanks for helping the lady out :)

missmandy20199 reads

MSOG???

-newbie here

missmandy17623 reads

nevermind, the newbie read a bit further into the forum ;)

please disregard.

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