What can I expect to recieve from massage parlors such as charmnyc that advertise as providing nude sensual massage? Can I expect to be brought to orgasm in other ways, say manually or orally?

In my experience, nude sensual massage always results in orgasm, usually brought about manually.

does "stress relief" mean a hj?  also, is there anyway to find out if a massage parlor will get you off (like the ones in the phone book), not looking to spend too much. thanks.

Massage parlors vary what they offer. The best way to find the ones that perform is to use the board for that city and privately email the long-timers or posters you can see have experience. And the price varies too depending on the city.
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Rick2

Rick can you emplain to me all the terms like BBBJ and such.  I am new and don't know all these terms.  Thanks