Once the business end of the session is taken care of and the lady ask what you want, tell her up front that you are concerned about finishing too fast. I suggest that you start with light kissing and light touching for the first 10-15 minutes to allow yourself to relax. One position that helps me last is missionary, with me keeping my crouch as close to the bed as possible. The position gets ladies off but allow me to last longer. I use it often for the first round with drop dead gorgeous ladies.
Finally got the courage to set a time for next thursday(very reputable agency,8 well reviewed pages on TER of provider).Didn't think I would get her because of her popularity and perfect GFE experience( so i've read).Basically i'm nervous as hell!!I don't want to blow my load in the first 2 minutes so should I masterbate in the morning(it's an afternoon session)?I'm 37 yrs and don't know if I could get it up again in an hour block of time.Will a GFE try to help you get hard again or show you the door after you pop once?Will I look like an idiot or unconfident if I bring that up with her?Also,do you talk about where you are going to cum(in the condom,on her chest,stomach,face,etc..)at the beggining of the session or right before it happens at the end?Any help would be apreciated.Thanks guys!
Wow! You're this nervous with almost a full week to go? You've got to relax man! This is supposed to be fun! It's not open-heart surgery! The person who can answer your first question the best is you.You know better than anyone how long it takes to re-fire your weapon.If you're worried about popping in 2 minutes,just have her stop or take a break or eat her pussy or suck her tits.Some girls allow multiple pops in an hour,some don't.But the better ones usually do! Don't be afraid to tell her or ask her something either.I guarantee whatever your comments or questions may be,she's heard a lot dumber ones.As far as where you're going to cum,you're better off asking her before starting if it's okay to cum on or in a certain part of her body.You may not be able to control it later in the session and she may not wish to be splooged on.
Thanks pussyliker for your insight.It's weird after investigating providers on TER for six months!These girls become like stars that aren't real to totally real once you make an appointment.Cant wait till then!
I think honestly and a light heart drives passion... I think most providers appreciate it if you tell her it is your first time in the hobby and are a bit nervous "I'm a bit concerned I may cum instantly the minute I see your gorgeous naked body..." She will smile and take the lead. If you have picked a consistantly well reviewed provider she will show you a great time. Tell her what you like. Ask her what she likes... etc. Eye contact. Smile... Show your appreciation.
Email her afterwards to say thanks. As they say: if it's wham, bam - don't forget the thank you mam! Since she is going to "pop your escort cherry" you could place a nice bowl of sweet cherries on your donation... fun for post 1st pop bed play and maybe a 2nd pop (?time). You could then be that "cherry guy" when you use her for a reference!
After the get-to-know you chat, most ladies will ask "what do you like?" This is when you should make your request ("I like a good french lesson with CIM") or the time to say that you are multi-orgasmic. Have fun!
Once the business end of the session is taken care of and the lady ask what you want, tell her up front that you are concerned about finishing too fast. I suggest that you start with light kissing and light touching for the first 10-15 minutes to allow yourself to relax. One position that helps me last is missionary, with me keeping my crouch as close to the bed as possible. The position gets ladies off but allow me to last longer. I use it often for the first round with drop dead gorgeous ladies.
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