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Re:kissing concerns
laurainnyc See my TER Reviews 7553 reads
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Hi there,
As a nanny by day and provider by night I also have concerns on this issue.  I have stopped sharing forks with the kids I take care of, as I am a gfe provider and therefore kiss my clients and I would never put the kids at risk.  Kissing your daughter on the forehead (as far as I know) is a relavtively safe activity; they are called Sexually Transmitted Diseases for a reason.  If you have herpes and currently have a cold sore on your mouth, you should not kiss your daughter.  

a link about how herpes is transmitted:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0102.html

HPV: again oral, vaginal or anal SEXUAL contact is the only way to transmit and I certainly hope you will not be engaging in any of the above with your daughter.

HPV info link:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0016.html

I really know nothing about scabies (and hope I never need to learn) except that they are pubic lice and therefore probably not an issue with kissing your daughter's forehead.  

I was wondering if it's possible to pass STDs to your kids by kissing them.  I kiss my baby on her forehead everyday, and was wondering if it's possible that I could pass on herpes/HPV/Scarbies if I were a "carrier" of those STDs.  I have been very careful with providers.... but I know you can get herpes by just kissing!  Any ideas?

you are at it, you should ask your SO that she kiss no one (relatives, sibblings, parents, ect) but you.

historian056559 reads

I think herpes-1 can be pass on by kissing the baby around the mouth area.  From what I understand 80% adult people have this form of herpes, but I don't think you want to pass it on to your infant. Someone left this good link a while back where a doctor who specialized in STDs will respond to your questions.  He maybe able to tell you if this is indeed a risk. (see attached link)

Hi there,
As a nanny by day and provider by night I also have concerns on this issue.  I have stopped sharing forks with the kids I take care of, as I am a gfe provider and therefore kiss my clients and I would never put the kids at risk.  Kissing your daughter on the forehead (as far as I know) is a relavtively safe activity; they are called Sexually Transmitted Diseases for a reason.  If you have herpes and currently have a cold sore on your mouth, you should not kiss your daughter.  

a link about how herpes is transmitted:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0102.html

HPV: again oral, vaginal or anal SEXUAL contact is the only way to transmit and I certainly hope you will not be engaging in any of the above with your daughter.

HPV info link:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0016.html

I really know nothing about scabies (and hope I never need to learn) except that they are pubic lice and therefore probably not an issue with kissing your daughter's forehead.  

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