So I found a provider that I like and have booked an appt. Now I need to figure out how to communicate to her how I would like our session to go, without scaring her or putting myself in a vulnerable legal position.
This is a session with a sub so I have some things in mind that I want her to be prepared for. For example, her clothing, toys, blindfolds, and how I expect her to act towards me when I greet her. Yes, this is going to be fun.
Can one of you pros help me here? What should I talk about and not talk about prior to meeting her? Is it ok to mention toys, clothing, and the sort as long as I don't talk about actual acts?
It's perfectly acceptable to ask her to wear or not wear certain outfits and also to ask her to bring any kind of toys that you wish.Since it sounds like you have a game plan already,you may want to ask her as delicately as possible if she'll do certain things for you.Just ask her if you can describe your plans to her and if your scenario is fine with her.If it's not,she'll tell you.Also,check her reviews to see if she's already done some of the things you're looking for.You might also want to email the other guys that have seen her to see how she responded to their requests.
and use only the broadest terms. I assume that the lady you are meeting either advertises, or is known for the services you desire, and will be able to accomodate you. Go with her plan on the first visit, and leave your specific gameplan for a 2nd visit. Once you've seen her once, and she is comfortable, and knows you are OK, you can be much more frank in your e-mails to her.
Remember, the ladies want to please you, as it is their livelihood, but safety is probably their 1st concern.
I think that I'll take your advice. This is the first time seeing her and I think it's probably better to just go with the flow this time. I know from past experience that seeing someone for the first time and having a plan is not always the best thing. It can set you up for disappointment. Thanks!
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