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"Regulars"
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Well as you said it depends...

Generally if I see them more than 3 times in a 2month period then they are a "Regular" however, regulars can become non-existant for many reasons. As long as I see them on a monthly basis I would consider them a semi-regular.

I realize this is going to be one of those "it depends" type of threads, but I'm curious to hear some opinions.

Does a guy become a regular after 2 visits?  3?  More?

Does it matter how much time passes between them, or if the provider tours?

Bascially, I visited someone twice within three days the last time they were in town and I'm eager to see them again.  Won't be offended if she doesn't remember me, but I'm wondering if my upcoming third session will earn me a gold star or something.

I'm not sure what a "regular" means.  The more important thing in your post seems to be "will she remember me"?

My guess is she will; drop her a note, refresh her memory with something from last time.  And if you want to increase the odds next time, do something little that's out of the ordinary.  Dinner works well, or a bottle of something unusual.

I couldn't agree more! Quality over quantity for sure! I consider "regulars" ones that I've seen more than 2x but that we TRULY enjoyed eachother and yes, he definitely will stand out if even the smallest gesture is done. The cliche "its the little things" applies here too :)

Posted By: AlfredReader
I'm not sure what a "regular" means.  The more important thing in your post seems to be "will she remember me"?

My guess is she will; drop her a note, refresh her memory with something from last time.  And if you want to increase the odds next time, do something little that's out of the ordinary.  Dinner works well, or a bottle of something unusual.
I think I can speak for most ladies when I say we remember who tips as well!

If you remember her mentioning in passing something she liked or a hobby or interest she has, major bonus points if you get her something related to that. She is a woman, after all, & that works well for any woman--P4P or not!

of five providers that I see. Some I visit more than others. I've seen them all at least 3x. I'ma chef so I always bring goodies to a session, and if too much time passes between visits I'll send them a message just to remind them of me. If you and the provider click and have a good time chances are they will remember you. I also tip if she goes above and beyond or shows me that she remembers how to push my buttons.

Well as you said it depends...

Generally if I see them more than 3 times in a 2month period then they are a "Regular" however, regulars can become non-existant for many reasons. As long as I see them on a monthly basis I would consider them a semi-regular.

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