Well, a hearty and energetic bbbjtcim always works for me!

1.A big hug and a kiss as an introduction from my first provider was a big help to me.
2.When she said "get comfortable" was a great icebreaker to. (lol)

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Tell her upfront that your new to using escorts.  And dont get specific when you ask questions. Try to keep in mind that you are 2 people,   oh and

BBBJCIM helps too!

Different providers use different tactics.  To comment on your reply, StickyDigits, I think the BBBJTCIM would happen *after* the hobbyist got over his nervousness.

From the two times I've seen providers, they did these things to help me relax.

-> The first provider I've seen offered me a bottle of water, since I looked like a nervous wreck.  She also gave me an overview of common industry terms, such as "get comfortable."

-> The second provider I've seen asked me if I had trouble getting there.  Interestingly, she also asked me about my previous provider experiences, which I found unusual, but fun to talk about.

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