Would like to know how some of the provides help very nervous hobbiests settle in.

Well, a hearty and energetic bbbjtcim always works for me!

1.A big hug and a kiss as an introduction from my first provider was a big help to me.
2.When she said "get comfortable" was a great icebreaker to. (lol)

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Tell her upfront that your new to using escorts.  And dont get specific when you ask questions. Try to keep in mind that you are 2 people,   oh and

BBBJCIM helps too!

Different providers use different tactics.  To comment on your reply, StickyDigits, I think the BBBJTCIM would happen *after* the hobbyist got over his nervousness.

From the two times I've seen providers, they did these things to help me relax.

-> The first provider I've seen offered me a bottle of water, since I looked like a nervous wreck.  She also gave me an overview of common industry terms, such as "get comfortable."

-> The second provider I've seen asked me if I had trouble getting there.  Interestingly, she also asked me about my previous provider experiences, which I found unusual, but fun to talk about.

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BBBJ after?  Not necessarily so, ILE.

I've had several ladies immediately drop to their knees as an ice-breaker, and I must admit, nothing says "I am not LE" like getting directly down to business.  You certainly won't be thinking about being nervous when you look down and see her staring up at you with beautiful eyes.