What is the best way to have toys be part of a date?  When setting up a date, what is the best way to say that I wouldn't mind having the provider bring a vibrator?  Would I ever bring one and not tell the provider until she shows up and suggest using a toy?

Also, for an hour or two experience, is it a given that multiple pops are permitted?

thanks for the help.

Just ask the lady politely to bring along some of her favorite play things.  Don't be specific.

With such variety of providers available, you should not make assumptions on things. Luckly, between TER reviews and personal sites of many of the providers, you can usually find out what a particular provider allows.

When setting up a date with the Lady, ASK/SUGGEST toys, best to do this BEFORE the date and that way she can reply if she is into that or not

I wouldn't show up with anything other than the donation unless it was discussed in advance.  If the lady is so inclined she will bring along her favorite playthings. Not every gal is into this. I met a wild lady in Chicago a couple of years ago who showed up at my hotel with a bag full of toys and told me that she wasn't leaving until I made her O. I did what I had to do....3 times...

many providers do provide multiple pops even in an hour session.  Her profile should say whether this is so or not.

For multiple hours, it should go without saying, as long as you are physically able to do so.