Newbie - FAQ
Regarding no shows
I provided a review concerning a provider that I drove 70 miles each way to see and she said she overslept. TER won't post that type of review.As a hobbiest isn't that something you would like to know?
And the Rule says one cannot post a review on provider one has not met!
Good point about rules.Thanks for giving board heads up wasted time! Who escort?
-- Modified on 1/2/2014 5:47:15 AM
1. This belongs on FAQ for Newbies
2. A meeting didn't take place so someone cannot be reviewed
3. You can post it on your local board so others can know and avoid going thru the same thing you did.
-- Modified on 1/2/2014 8:18:11 AM
I posted it here, my local board, and the reviewers only board. I did not name the provider publicly, but offered to name her if someone PM'd me, which many did.
Yes, sometimes it is irritating that we can't review a no show, but keep in mind, guys no show the ladies too, and they have no ability to post a review either. But, they can do what I did, and name the guy in private.
Swim
I tried to post a review of a terrible experience I had with a provider and because the ad didn't have her name in it, they wouldn't post it. So, she continues to rip people off. I'm sure she (and, as I found out during the experience, her pimps) knows about this rule.
Thanks for giving board heads up on matter!
Are you guys picking high volume providers? Find a provider who values your time & appreciates your business. They must be working to hard to oversleep when she has a booked appointment. I wake up everyday early, and never flake when I have an appointment this is just bad business. TER should have a list for gents only to add these lame providers to because I read about top read providers in almost every city who do this & feel sorry for the honest man who has been clearly disrespected. Did she offer you anything for wasting your time?
Sorry for you
the one that stood me up is not high volume. She's been around the area for years, and even got a review 2-3 weeks after she stood me up. I had actually met her a couple years prior to this attempted encounter at a small MnG she hosted. She actually did it to me twice. The first time when I was 3/4 the way to where she told me to go, she texted me and said she had unexpectedly started her period. I asked to reschedule for a week later, which we set up. That time when I got to the site and called her, it went straight to voicemail and no answer to text. Waited a while, repeated, same response, so I texted her that I was going home. Never heard a peep from her. Needless to say, she is not on my list of ladies to see anymore.
Swim
had an appointment set with a very (50+, all positive) well reviewed lady. She even confirmed the session via E-mail two hours prior. When I got to the location and contacted her, no answer. I contacted her the next day and she said "Oh, a friend stopped by and we had to chat". That was it; no real apology and no promises to make it up to me. I obviously never wrote a review and never made an attempt to see her again. Chalk it up to bad luck!
Things happen all the time. Hobbyists cancel. Ladies cancel. If you hobby long enough you will experience just about all the highs/lows this hobby has to offer!
But continue doing your research and homework. More often than not you will be rewarded with a positive worthwhile session.
I hope you called her ON THE DAY OF BEFORE YOU headed all that way? If not, sadly, that's an oversight on your part. Guys should NEVER take an appt. is golden until you speak to the provider right before the date, because I have seen this story play out a hundred times. Sorry that happened, but the only recourse you have is to post on the Regional and RO boards.
She frequently is in the area just North of me & we were all set the night before except she hadn't checked in yet. She was going to give me the address in the morning. She didn't call, I called & left voice mail. I called back when the time was short & said since I had not heard, I was giving up. She continues to get good reviews in the area North of me. I never got even a 'plans changed'.
The result was, instead of the upgrade experience I'd been seeking, I ended up wasting an opportunity.
SHE is on my personal DNS list. The only one in this category. I would not see her now, not even if it was offered FREE! Because there is some value to my time & opportunity she wasted. An opportunity I can never recoup.
-- Modified on 1/2/2014 3:26:04 PM
Happens to all of us at one point or another... Had a very nice provider that called me after the NS & told me it was due to road conditions between home and the incall... OK, no big deal, appreciated the courtesy.
Chill out, have a drink, get over it...
Your telling me that you had a NS makes not an ounce of difference to me...
I usually call to confirm our date just before I get on the interstate. It's well over an hour & helps her be ready. This one time, she did not pick up. I was annoyed. I turned around & called another Fav lady. I found out later that #1 had a family member pass away unexpectedly & she'd dropped everything & gone. I saw #1 some time later... clearly she was still upset & there were pictures & mementos in plain view.
Life happens. There are bigger things than our convenience. (But I'm glad I called before driving.)
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