So I am running into a problem. I have recently picked up the hobby after a hiatus. My issue is that my independents are now "retired" and my agencies are defunct. I cant get an appointment anywhere. I also have change my alias and do not have any reviews under the current alias. I have a feeling that I may have to TOFFT on BP for awhile, but figured I would send a signal on here to see if I can get some other guidance.
Also, you don't need to go to BP girls. Try opening a P411 or Date-Check account and get verified. Once you are verified, you can see newbie friendly providers without much difficulty.
Having a lady verify you thru your employer is easy and quick. Just make sure you choose a well reviewed, experienced lady who knows how to be discrete. They will call and ask for you and hang up when you pick up the phone. If someone at work asks her who she is, she says "this is Mary from John Doe's doctors office" or whatever you want to work out with the lady in advance.
Don't risk giving your employment info to the lady. If she ends up being a psycho, your info will invariably end up on the Internet. Many people have been burned by this.
P411/Date-Check will ask for your employment information for verification purposes, but they are a verification sites and are very discreet. Their servers are also located outside of the US jurisdiction.
I only recommend doing this for people who are fearful of giving out so much info to a verification service, which can be quite intimidating to a newbie. Their servers can be hacked as easliy as anyone else's or they could get raided or a disgruntled employee could release the info. "Psychos" can exist anywhere. Thats why I stated to only do this with experienced, well reviewed ladies whose "psycho" factor is extemely minimal. Lets face it Curly, there is risk both ways. Its up to the individual as to which they feel more comfortable with. I am merely giving an alternative method for verification that many people have used, including myself, when I was a newb.
I stated to only do this with experienced, well reviewed ladies whose "psycho" factor is extemely minimal.
Simply not true. Reviews don't mean anything when it comes to psycho factor.
Seriously, I mean you think giving information to P411 and DC is riskier than giving it to the ladies. The purpose of these sites is to protect your information. You are better off giving info to the sites who don't have any skin in the game other than protecting your info, than a provider who can out you at the drop of a hat should you piss her off..
I don't know how long you been hobbying, but based on your review history you seem to be a newbie yourself.
I have been around the block for a while and have faced the grunt of a pissed off provider.
Hobbying for 10 years. Reviews dont mean anything? It shows stability of a woman over a number of years, not just her looks or her performance. Does that mean she is never going to be a problem? Of course not. And I never said it was "riskier", I simply said there is risk involved with verification sites as well. And again, some people have an issue giving out all the info that the verification sites ask for. For those people who dont want to give all that info out, I merely pointed out an alternative. One can choose the best path for themselves.
who might still vouch for you. Many women will see newbies with no refs from 411, if you do the employment option. It's really one or the other if you want a quality girl. Women who don't screen tend to not care about who they see either, so do you really want to put your d*ck in that?
Some providers and agencies won't even accept a reference from a girl with only BP ads, so TOFTT from BP would be a waste of time and energy. P411 is your best bet.
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