I just renewed my deal after 7 years off - still a newbie but determined to make the leap this time. Since I have no referrals I'm well aware that I won't be seeing any of the girls in my favorites yet. I'm curious for both provider & hobbyist feedback: Is it worth joining a site like Date Check, P411, etc. or is the essence of the 1st referral based on whether or not I was a classy guy with good hygiene? If you don't see newbies would you refer us to friends that qualify as a future reference? I have no problem getting verified so I'd prefer joining one of the sites if it would widen my selection for my 1st adventure.
If you join without existing provider referrals, these sites will verify you through your personal and employment information.
This gives ladies a degree of assurance about you, and it is in my opinion safer to give this info to these verification sites than directly to providers, which they would require if you have no references.
Many ladies on these sites will see you without any further refernces - but certainly not all.
However, they give you a way to build credibility in the hobby, as you collect referrals from their member providers. Much easier than getting direct references in my opinion.
Have a lady invite you to date-check, you get 3 months free. I would suggest you see a date-check lady with TER reviews first, and once she vouches for yo, they will give u 3 free months. Than make sure you see a 2nd date-check lady and after she verified you, i would say you are in the clear for references.
P411 is the same thing. I would suggest you find a provider who is date-check and p411 verified and have them verify you for both sites incase a girl isn't using one or the other
Great advice - I'll try joining the 1st site & post the details as they unfold. I'm wondering if joining both sites simultaneously is worth the $$$ since it most likely won't double my chances (right?), however, I can see the value in joining both eventually. Or do I have it backwards? Any feedback is helpful - thanks everyone.
After the first 3 months on datecheck, u can pay a monthly, quarterly, yearly or lifetime fee and keep all your references. I have for example 11 references on date-check.
For P411, you get a free 6 month membership after you have been verified. You dont have to pay to see what ladies are members of each site, you can look at the list of providers who are P411 or datecheck verified from the gallary list for your hometown/state/city
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