I found couple of providers requesting that i must have references does it mean i need to have another providers ad ready? or that i'm from TER? because I've been with 3 providers 2 of them being from CV and 1 from BP wrote reviews for each one of them but didn't keep in contact to become there regular.... but this new provider i found i wish to become a regular.

It means you need the providers info that you saw I would suggest contacting these ladies to see if they are reference friendly.Not all providers are if they are reference friendly provide the ladies who are requesting references a link to your references ads and/or website and contact info.
If you want to include your TER handle that is fine but you would still need the providers info because maybe the ladies you want to see are not TER members.

In general, a provider will want a reference from another provider who will verify that  you've seen her and are OK.  Do not provide this info before first checking with the provider you've seen.  I'm skeptical that a BP girl will do it, but you never know.  This is why it's good to be a member of a verification service like P411 or Date-Check.  To find out more about these, do a search as there are many threads about how to join and use these services.

how reputable they appear. And your two more recently reviewed providers should make excellent references if they agree to it. They both have many very good TER reviews, and, you should be aware, are P411 members.

On the other hand, if a provider were to have only 2 or 3 reviews and no online presence aside from her ads, even if she were willing to be a reference, the lady you wanted to see might not accept her.

So the 2 providers out of the three i reviewed cindy and dominique come very reputable on Cityvibe and have more then 10 reviews on TER.... if i was over the phone with a different provider how would i tell her the reference if she requests it because i can't physically show her like through an email or text message. By the way the 2 providers i reviewed only seen once and never went back not because they were horrible it's just that i like to try new ones but this new provider i found makes me want ot be a repeat customer and don't want to screw up the first impression.

If you are talking to the lady on the phone whatever info she asks for give it to her regarding your references.The same info you would give to her in an email you can give her the ladies contact info and say they are on TER and give her your references TER ID#.Also,don't forget to ask the ladies you did review if they are okay with providing references.
Good luck!

WOW em i really bad at this... first off i only had one session with the 2 good reviews out of the 3 and i'am pretty sure they won't remember me ... and i already gave her the review info.... i'm hoping to hear back from her since i only emailed her today she said she would get back to me tomorrow latest....... X| i mean i wrote nice things about these ladies so...

Before using any lady as a reference you should contact them to see if they remember you, to let them know another provider will contact them, not a mad stalking SO. You don't need to see a lady more then once to ask her to be a reference though it helps. As was said before two of your ladies were on p411 and if you had been a member you could have asked for an OK as soon as you saw them, less chance of having to try and remember you later. You may not have messed up with the new provider yet but your reviews alone may not be enough to satisfy her.