I will ask a guy for references but also do see men without them. We have to be understanding that whether this is their first time seeing a provider or you havent been in years that not everyone can give a reference. If the gent cant provide a ref. ill ask for a business card or work website and if that doesnt work out ill make sure to check their ID. Perhaps your best bet is to go with an agency before you start seeing independent providers or get varified on a site.
I had no references as well when i started about a month ago. I joined a pre-screening site, Preferred411 for a nominal fee,contacted a Newbie friendly provider a week after,made an incall appointment,went fantastic and got my first provider okay afterwards that future providers will need and require. Ah,and now to my second provider appointment!
Same as you, i signed up for p411 and emailed a provider a week before and she was newbie friendly listed. The problem is, she must not have trusted me on the phone because she want 2 ref.- my first time was a failure and am still trying to get hooker up
Someone posted about starting through p411, I agree 100%. That is how I got my start about 6 months ago. I contacted a newbie friendly provider, had a great encounter. I've never looked back since then, I'm now up to about 40 appointments in 6 months?
Join a screening service and don't give up. Once you get 1 or 2 under your belt it's a breeze, as long as you treat the ladies well they will give you a reference.
One last piece of advice, do tip the ladies and you will be greatly rewarded and remembered. I have a habbit of over tipping but I have no problems with a delay in reference or setting up another appointment.
One year ago I joined P411. My first encounter was with a provider that was nervous because I didn't have a reference. After talking with me on the telephone she agreed to an appointment. When I arrived at the incall she was still a little nervous, but all went very well. She gave me a provider okay and it's been smooth sailing since. You got to love a girl that takes pity on the poor newbie!
Go to one of the verification sites and find a newbie friendly lady.Or provide some other info that can be verified,but the verification sites are your best bet.
Join some verification sites like date-check and preferred411 and even through here try to find someone newbie friendly and if she's comfortable enough ask her to whitelist you.
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