I'm new to the board, what are references?

References are prior girls you have seen so the provider can check and will know you're not law enforcement or a jerk-see my prior post-many will not see you without a reference but keep trying-others will want a work number so they can verify you-keep trying and once you get one, you'll not likely have many problems after that-and always ask the provider if you can use her for a reference in the future-most will but it is just common courtesy to ask permission-Good hobbying! 1rob...OUT

but your question was not well thought out..  Let me explain.  If you were applying for a job and your potential employer asked for references.. you would provide the names of individuals and companies who knew what type of employee you are.  

Providers ask for references from other providers you have seen to find out what kind of client you are.

Not being critical.. but its just common sense.