I hate to be the one complaining this time, but does no one read the boards before posting these questions? Maybe TER could put in a little artifical intelligence and automatically transfer these folk to the FAQ rather than let this question get posted multiple times each day. Or maybe yell at the mods for letting it thru. Hit80, check the thread just below this one for your answers. And RS2000 is a verification service that some providers use.

date check www.date-check.com
preferred411 www.preferred411.com
and
Room Service 2k www.roomservice2000.com

thats the best way to get started

ALWAYS stick with providers who have many, recent, excellent reviews on TER. See a beautiful pic of a lady who has no reviews here? Odds are they're fake....

And - educate yourself. There is an awful lot you need to know before playing this game.  See my post linked below, and READ READ READ the Acronyms and Newbies manual at the top of this page.