I just called a provider and she need references but this is the first time for me. I know that I need to see someone to get referenced. But how do I do that? Do I ask if she gonna be my reference or what?

see a provider who will screen you another way, then use HER s a reference on your next appointment. Do your homework first and pick a ref friendly lady. make sure to give her whatever she needs to screen you without references and be respectful. it goes a long way.

Good Luck!
Jenny