I'm an AA/American Indian with fare skin and I don't want an AA woman for my hobby because I've been with them all my life. White females pose as a "fantasy" for me and that I can get an AA woman for free or little or nothing where a non AA man looks at the AA woman as a "fantasy" and is willinjg to pay well for that. Just had to throw in my 2 cents.
Are some providers concern about ethnicity or national origin of a client?
that they won't do blacks (for a number of reasons), and many won't do Indians and/or Middle Easterners due to body odor.
yes
but it runs both ways
some black providers may be worried on taking a white client b/c they have experienced racism
some female providers may feel uncomfortable if they don't like todays slang
it isn't being racist
I have heard that black women can take more sex physically than an oriental spinner
of course, with 9-11, you have to wonder how worried the middle eastern descent providers are around military men
This is a strange one. Some black providers saying they don't accept black clients.
Very strange, but true!
Ever seen the Spike Lee movie School Daze? It'a all about discrimination, but not white on black. It's about discrimination that's light-skinned vs dark-skinned blacks.
This has been going on for a long time; you just don't read/hear that much about it in the mainstream.
It's a matter of personal preference to some. It seems the exception rather than the rule though. If you're concerned that it might be an issue, just be up front about it and ask.
I like talking to providers during and after my sessions. I have met some during the past that had restrictions but what I see more now are ones that do not restrict based upon ethnicity (but will screen out crude potential clients if they pick up on the behavior before meeting the client).
All of the women that I met that had ethnic preferences, I met before my TER days. I stick with ladies that have average performance scores of 8 or higher, and not a single one mentioned an ethnic preference, even during far ranging conversation. All of those provides appear to be more concerned about whether they are meeting a gentleman.
I would want to be with a providers that does all races of cleints. I rather bubby do that to me than see a providers that does them all.
they charge high rates so they do not get black men as clients. Asians are fine for most ladies. Arabs and Indians also not seen as ideal by many due to cleanliness and smell issues
As a Asian male I've never had any problems with any providers in the states. Some even expressed interest in a relationship outside providing. (I think they enjoyed my charms. X-)
Only place I noticed problems is in some Puerto Rico clubs.
Weird because about 20% want a long term relationship. (I'm not an idiot. They want financial support in the states.) But about 20% don't want anything to do with me.
(Note stats are my opinion since I don't have that much sample.)
One stripper in the states wanted $$$ for service but her friend told me the provider had a thing for Asians.
So... I wondered if she was offering me money...
haha!
I get concerned but I go farther than that.....
I ask age, body build, weight/height, cultural background, and now religious background
I had a client who in the middle of thrusting asked me if I would accept Jesus into my heart. I am glad that I didn't require an erection to keep going.
I also do everything possible to screen out one time deals b/c of the high amount of LE activity.
This is one of the few threads I have read where the participants were very accurate in their appraisal of this subject. I have an AA friend who hobby's extensively (he is well educated, single and very well off financially). He basically echo's the same things that you guys have stated.
According to him, while there is some distaste for AA males, it is the exception more than the norm. He basically contacts providers via e-mail and sends a picture, those who responds he visits and those that do not he doesn't worry about.
He also indicates that he has an extreme amount of difficulty in trying to get an appointment with AA Providers. There non-response rate is 4 times higher than the white providers.
This phenomenon intrigue me, so I decided to conduct a little research on my own.
I contacted an AA provider by e-mail to set up a possible appointment. Once commmunication was open a dialogue was established and we became e-mail buddies. After I had gained her confidence I finally asked her if she entertain AA clients. She replied that she really tried to avoid them because they would always bicker about price after they arrived. This may also be a reason why some white providers do not wish to see AA hobbysist (though they would never discuss or publish this information).
My friend did however state that the Providers he has been with have advised him that they are not as concerned about ethnicity as long as the hobbyist is a gentlemen. It appears for the most part (at least according to him), they ( as a group), are more interested in the quality of the man more than the color of his skin.
I'm an AA/American Indian with fare skin and I don't want an AA woman for my hobby because I've been with them all my life. White females pose as a "fantasy" for me and that I can get an AA woman for free or little or nothing where a non AA man looks at the AA woman as a "fantasy" and is willinjg to pay well for that. Just had to throw in my 2 cents.
deeman said it right.. I was waiting for that answer..Some providers do this ,as well , to fulfill OUR fantasies..I know of an AA provider.. I asked her if she see's black men . she told me no.. Shes been with them all her life and one of the reasons why she is into providing was to see the discerning white gentlemen.. As she also told me.. that a big fear of seeing AA men is it could be a cousin or something of the sort.. friend of a cousin and so on...
As for myself. I havent a problem with seeing any ethnicity .. All of my "friends" are very upscale and respectful no matter what their nationality or race.
Yes, it is true an AA man has a bigger hoo hoo ( LOL )... but as with a white man.. a spanish man.. or an italian man with a big hoo hoo ( LOL AGAIN!!) ... They all know how to use it without moving around your large intestine !! *smile*
Ciara
As an AA provider, I actually have never been with an AA client (except one back in my massage days). This was not by choice on my part. 80% of the men who meet me are white, and the others are either Latino, Asian,etc. I am more than happy with my clientele and would welcome ANY respectful gentleman who, when contacting me, seems to have a defined interest in ME, which all of the men I have chosen to see have done.
Sincerely,
Naomi Madrid
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