Newbie - FAQ

A Very newbie concern re: Age!
pedic 5 Reviews 14522 reads
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1 / 15

Don't know if this has been asked before, but I'm very new to this game, almost 60-years-old and wonder do provider's prefer younger or middle aged hobbyist? I feel kind of outdated, just became familiar with the computer world and now feel as though I've been introduced to something special to me. I haven't had an experience with a provider yet, but am trying to get all of my specifics before I do. What are some of the things a man of my age should look for?

Your wisdom would be greatly appreciated. And thanks!

DRYBONE 11933 reads
posted
2 / 15

Some providers prefer older men. Those usually state so. I don't really think I have ever read a review of someone being turned down because they were too old. Go out and give it a try old man! Have some fun. Just MOO (my own opinion) but I would look for a provider maybe late twenties to early mid thirties first. They usually seem to be easier to get a long with. Reviews don't lie either, do you your homework and have some fun. Don't forget to let us know how it went.

burnit 6 Reviews 13857 reads
posted
3 / 15

Imagine you'll be more than fine. I'm pushing forty but look much younger. Great for a gal, pain in the ass for me. The first providor I saw looked at me as if she was being asked to service her plucky nephew. Drag.

Bon chance.

jaejae 18 Reviews 13602 reads
posted
4 / 15

I'm still a young man, in my early 40's but my maturity level can be likened to that of a teenager at times.

IMO, you may want to try a mature woman for the first time, someone that has been well reviewed. If you don't have a VIP membership get one. It will pay for itself tenfold. Search in your area and don't be afraid to ask questions.

Good luck and be safe.

A Spectator 13872 reads
posted
5 / 15

see someone with great reviews with GFE services such as BBBJ (BareBack BlowJob), DFK (Deep French Kisses) and touch pussy.  Highly rated ladies that offered these services are usually experienced.  They would usually put you at ease with their skills.

It would also help you greatly if you're a VIP members, able to read the juicy detail.  Many reviewers like myself, included somewhat detail descriptions about the lady we saw in the juicy details.  A lot of times one can read between the lines and got hold of the demeanor of a lady from reviews.

With the help of TER, your chance of having a successful encounter is greatly enhanced.

Good luck and happy hobbying.

pedic 5 Reviews 17966 reads
posted
6 / 15

Thanks for the responses, they made me feel a bit more at ease and more confident. I'm torn between trying the provider in her twenties vs a more mature one. I have made positive email contact with an older provider that has many good reviews here on TER. She is not exactly what I want, but may be the avenue to take for foundation in my plight for future young ones. I've also seen a younger one ( age 23) who has only one fair review, but looks very delicious! I'm still undecided.

After reading several responses to us Newbies about the redundant questions we ask, I decided to take the oldies advice and do my homework, use the search engine andd research, and just simply read as much as possible. I read back months ago and see that is age issue was addressed in-depth already and I learned a lot from this information. I also reviewed the survey that was taken months ago - real informative I must say.

I'll keep on reading until I have completed all the pages and the overview and at that time, hopefully I will be Ready.

So, I want to again say thanks to you guys for the inspiration and positive advice and I will advise when the first encounter is completed with success.

ptsmn 4 Reviews 15616 reads
posted
7 / 15

I am in my 60's and age has never been an issue. I am however somewhat of a newbie myself.  If you present yourself professionally, extend the respect and consideration that the provider usually deserves, you will have a rewarding experience.
The recommendation to review the TER reviews and make your selection is a good one.  There are many high class women out there and I hope I don't run out of gas any time soon.


OldTraveler 40 Reviews 15528 reads
posted
8 / 15

I completely agree.  I’m mid 50s, and I make sure I always let the Lady know up front.  I’ve never had one back off because of it.  In fact, I’ve seen many more adds that say “30+ only” than say “Under 40 only”.

jaejae 18 Reviews 15869 reads
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9 / 15
eroticspirit 28 Reviews 12595 reads
posted
10 / 15

Most important advice I can give.....get the VIP membership for TER and pick a provider who...

a) states a preference for men 30 and older (there are a fair amount of providers like this, and they greatly appreciate the courtesy and respect an older man brings to the session)

b) has consistantly outstanding reviews (having used TER for several years, I can honestly say that if you find a provider who has 3 or more 8-10 ratings in performance, you will never go wrong...the accuracy of these reviews is uncanny!!!)

HarryLime 10 Reviews 14965 reads
posted
11 / 15

I just turned 60.  All the advice here is on the money.  Find someone who is experienced, older, and well reviewed.  I think your best times will be with a woman with experience, age, and the skills to do it well and like what she is doing.

For me at least, ladies who are older feel more like sex partners than ladies who are younger  Your feelings may vary...Harry.

pedic 5 Reviews 12717 reads
posted
12 / 15

I think all of you all are right. I'm going to try the older experienced provider first, who has several great reviews here. Maybe I can get a bbbjtc out of the deal. Only had this done once In my life anyway!After that, I'll let you guys know what I came-up with.

pedic 5 Reviews 14463 reads
posted
13 / 15

A Spectator, you hit it right on the head. I upgraded to VIP today, visited the J/D section, and all that information in the "juicy detail" blew my mind. Oh yeah, I want a true GfE, BBBJTC - without -DFK, and all the other good stuff. I also changed my mind about a few potential providers after having read the reviews and matched them up with particular Hobbyist on TER. For sure now, I expect to enjoy a wonderful, delightful experience very soon; going for real gusto!

the69erz 1 Reviews 14977 reads
posted
14 / 15

I find just the opposite.  I am in my late-20s, and I prefer women in their mid30s to mid40s.  There are some really beautiful girls on eros that say they only want 35+ men.  I'm not sure why they want older men?  Is it the maturity or are older men more likely to tip better.

I'm sure if I contacted them, they would see me if I was persuasive, but it just bothers me to see that on their websites.  Kind of like saying, I'm not welcome there.

Phx69 12590 reads
posted
15 / 15

I'm 60, been with almost a 100 women in the past few years and have never had a compliant.  I've been with gals from 19 to 47 and I don't really have a preference on age.  But I do tend to stay with women under 35.

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