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and you will get a number of articles on the topic of Oral sex. Find the ones that cover DATY. The articles are mostly public health or academic articles.

Tell what DATY stands for?  I have figured out what it is.  For a male DATY has very little risk at all, that is for STD.  you need to be a reciever before you can become able to get STD and or HIV.  That really goes for sex as well.  She is taking much more of a risk than a male.  that is why it is so important to her for you to use a condom