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Re:Definitions of "Regular" and "ATF"
MidnightLover 8710 reads
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I agree with most of what joercny has said, particularly about the part that an ATF is somewhat subjective. While all providers are not created equal, most of them are dam good at what they do. So it then comes down to the things you really like. As an example I like older escorts who are really responsive to DATY, also those that are full figured. I'm a skinny guy and definately like more cushion for the pushing. I also prefer those that are college educated of otherwise educated in the ways of the world (though this is not a show stopper). Everything else being equal (in the service dept), I am more inclined to pick an ATF based on my personal preferences as indicated above. Both of MY ATF's were decided on during my first visit, I knew driving home that I would see them many more times.

I do not expect any extra's from my ATF, I just enjoy the familiarity and the intimacy. Some providers will give you a few perks, i.e. discounted rates, special services or special scheduling, however your ATF should be based on your criteria and not the fact that you've seen her numerous times. Because if you have, she probably is doing something you really like or she has a special appeal to you.

One last note, it's easier on the wallet if you can find a 200.00 ATF then a 300.00 ATF, you get to see her more and the service will get better and better.

How many times does need to see a provider to be a "regular"?

And how many providers would one need to see to have enough experience to have and All Time Favorite?

TIA....

I just saw my first provider this past Saturday, and could easily see myself becoming one of her regulars....  :-)

It's tough to quantify precise definitions but I'll tell you what I've found, based on conversations with providers.  For a middle-of-the-road 30 y.o GFE $250-$300 lady, anyone who sees her even once, or twice, a month she considers a regular. I'd imagine by the third or fourth visit a lady would consider you a regular.  Now, what privileges you get from being a "regular" is wholly subjective -- it's up to the provider.  That's another topic altogether.

"ATF" to my mind is a VERY loose term.  It can mean anything from "ladies you'd see again" to "top 10% of all ladies you've ever seen".   For me, ATF is an evolving thing.  I have current ATFs and former ATFs I see about once or twice a year (former because they've been eclipsed by my current ATFs).

Sounds like you had a good first experience.  If you were comfortable with the session, then I'd suggest splooging into a few other females before settling on a regular.  A lot of guys around here never seen the same women twice.



I agree with most of what joercny has said, particularly about the part that an ATF is somewhat subjective. While all providers are not created equal, most of them are dam good at what they do. So it then comes down to the things you really like. As an example I like older escorts who are really responsive to DATY, also those that are full figured. I'm a skinny guy and definately like more cushion for the pushing. I also prefer those that are college educated of otherwise educated in the ways of the world (though this is not a show stopper). Everything else being equal (in the service dept), I am more inclined to pick an ATF based on my personal preferences as indicated above. Both of MY ATF's were decided on during my first visit, I knew driving home that I would see them many more times.

I do not expect any extra's from my ATF, I just enjoy the familiarity and the intimacy. Some providers will give you a few perks, i.e. discounted rates, special services or special scheduling, however your ATF should be based on your criteria and not the fact that you've seen her numerous times. Because if you have, she probably is doing something you really like or she has a special appeal to you.

One last note, it's easier on the wallet if you can find a 200.00 ATF then a 300.00 ATF, you get to see her more and the service will get better and better.

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