however, I would say it's rare, and you'll pay extra. You may not  "see the issue with it" but trust me many ladies will. And you'll given a loud "no" by many ladies, but like I said there are escorts who will. PSE's will also allow it from time to time, but expect to pay more for a pse video.  Read the website of the lady. Also some may allow it, but will ask you not to mention it in the review.

then act surprised when they surface.

BTW, I hope you are totally unencumbered.   For a person with ties of any kind, this is highest risk...  
Unless one has no ties, never is going to have ties, and doesn't give a flying leap who knows...  I recommend compartmentalizing...  Keeping a public life and a separate private life.  

If I decided to stop the game tomorrow, I throw away the hobby phone, delete my TER account, my private email...  the major tracks are gone.   Minor hints can be explained away.

the majority of ladies we do not want to be videotaped in any kind of way!There are some that might be okay but seeing how every now and then this subject comes up and the responses are usually NO.I am sure if you do find a lady acceptable to your request more than likely she would want to be additionally compensated.The issue with this is so many things could go wrong I do not want to even start to list.

ACTUALLY if you give money in exchange for a sex tape then techinically you re making porn..which is legal

As stated most ladies will say no. I've done it twice with the same guy, but trust me he pays for the video big time. Find a chick and see her a couple times before asking the bombshell. That way she is comfortable with you and you're not some creepy guy just wanting to film...that's my reccomendation

For the love of your favorite deity DON'T DO IT!!! I know you want to savor the memories of your meeting, but things happen-- ask Pam & Tommy Lee among others. Recording is more common than you think but I would be as discreet as the POPE! Sure things can be kept a secret on your end BUT as I've said before things happen!!! (blackmail, extortion,...).

I am new to the biz and would not allow it under any circumstances! For one, I am a very private individual and discreet as well.

Think about it before you do it, ok?

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you should ask first, over the phone or email. Sometimes girls will not discuss details over the phone and you may need to see her personally once or twice before she feels comfortable discussing advanced services.
In my experience (which is more vast than I'd like to think about) most escorts do NOT allow anything that could later be turned into evidence at a court or pop up on the internet to haunt them later in life. This includes photography, large groups, or outdoor activities; especially in public places.
Ever notice how so many of them advertise with their faces blanked out? They dont want friend and family to know what they do, or possible future employers if they ever rejoin the rat race. And many prefer to cut down on things that could be used by the cops or DA.

If a girl does allow it she will probably add a surcharge and may request that she be allowed to keep the photos/vids at the end. She may end up destroying the evidence or blanking out her face before giving them back. Some girls are fine with the physical act of taking the pics cuz its good kinky fun, but they dont actually want them floating around afterwards. In the modern era its way to easy to upload them straight to the internet from your multimedia camera or smart phone.

This is also one of those serious issues that you should never push. If a girl says "no", just accept it and find one who will. Asking for services she doesnt provide will eventually make her angry.