From a Penn man to a Tiger, welcome to the world of providers and hobbyists!
Take your time and go with the flow! I don't know what your background is, but my life as a hobbyist began when I suddenly became a widower 9 years ago.
I was married for 50 years ago when my wife passed away suddenly. I spent a couple years wondering what I should do for female companionship, and then I thought that I should get involved with ladies again. I joined TER so that I could contact escorts who would 'provide' me with what I needed.
Let me tell you that there are soooo many beautiful ladies in this world, and ATL has more than its share. That is not to say that the Carolinas don't have equally beautiful, sensitive, tender, and caring ladies .
My experience has been that women in their 30s 40s and 50s usually fill the bill.
I have had many experiences, some with the younger girls and many with the more mature ladies.
I always look for ladies who will smile for the cameras and come across as caring, sensuous, and attractive women.
I love women in general, but those with a sense of humor, and a courtesan streak, and most important of all, those with dimples really turn me on.
Treat them all like ladies, be kind, loving and greatful for their existence, and they'll return your attitudes tenfold!
If you would like more advice, post a message with your TER address or PM.
When I meet a girl at my motel room would it be a good idea not to do or say anything first. Let the girl maybe ask for the money and get comfortable. Im wondering if this is a good idea because people say that LE can arrest you for just having an envelope with money out in the open. If this lady is a cop and I don't do anything would she eventually have to leave??
The escort that I am using for the first time is an Asian escort that seems very peopular on Eros and CityVibe. The girls from the agency have gotten some nice reviews here too. What are the chances of LE having a sting on an individual client?? I would love to get started with the hobby but I am just so hesitant.
Here is how I have read all this info in past. If you show up with cash, a girl you don’t know- meet with the intentions of having sex- and this is a LE sting- you will get arrested. Yes maybe after you hire an attorney and pay big bucks you can get the case dismissed- but it will be painful and embarrassing.
Now if she is Ter reviewed-- by well know reviewers/hobbyist on Ter- then I would say your chances of getting busted are very slim. But- it's never 100 percent safe. It is a risk you are going to have to take. Take your time- be selective.
My two cents- if the girl gets naked without talking about money and me even showing an envelope- I know I am pretty safe. Then I get naked to make her feel safe. I also feel since she is coming to your room- it helps. My feeling on this is- police don’t want to risk injury to their officer by having them go into a room they have no control over. Think about it- sending a woman into a location they have not scoped out- have limited access to- is it really worth the officer’s life? That is tactically a pretty dangerous situation for police- all for a stupid prostitution bust. Has it happened- I am sure it has. This is one reason why I would prefer an outcall from a provider I have never used before.
Everyone has opinions. LE gets smarter every day and finds ways to be creative. Just like Std’s- there are risks to this hobby- if you think you are 100 percent safe- I think you are mistaking. But you can take many steps to educate yourself and have a hell of a time with some awesome ladies. First step- get a Ter membership, read and research. Think with your big head- not your small one
I Think spike999 gave a very good answer and I agree that nothing is 100%. I would rather have a definable, realistic set of circumstances to explain. I dont want to be left with my only defense as, “Honestly Judge, thats the truth.”
I find that a plain white envelope full of money would be a hard thing to explain to LE. It is like a standard procedure in the industry and the one that I am going to avoid.
I found a generic Aniversary card to stick in my envelope with a note on the card that clearly denotes the cash as a gift. Lets face it, I am a guy who is into hedgetrimmers and is willing to admit that I have bad taste in gifts for the gals and is why I chose to give cash!
I feel that a simple card creates an explainable chain of events that doesnt equal prostitution. More importantly, Man law specifically states that the unforgotten occasion with a gift should equal sex. Even the gals know that and so should all the members of LE and our judicial system!
It happens though it is not likely when dealing with an established lady. It is MUCH more common for the stings to be directed towards the ladies...
so therefore...
do NOT make her ask for the money, it is likely to make her very uncomfortable. Simply set it down where she can see without saying a word. She should take it from there.
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You can be arrested for any perceived infraction - envelope or not. For the charges to stick you generally need offer and agreement. There is no law against paying someone for their time and company. There ARE laws against paying for sexual services.
Don't be paranoid, stick with well-established ladies, read your reviews, and have fun!
It should also be noted that with most experienced providers you will know before your session where to put the envelope, probably by the bathroom sink, where you can leave it without her present and she can retrieve it without you present.
Also, there are sting operations targeting the hobbyist, most always using a new or unknown provider, of course, and usually on something like Craig's List, where inexperienced hobbyists are easy prey.
My 2 cents, stick with experienced providers with reviews or at least providers from well established agencies.
From a Penn man to a Tiger, welcome to the world of providers and hobbyists!
Take your time and go with the flow! I don't know what your background is, but my life as a hobbyist began when I suddenly became a widower 9 years ago.
I was married for 50 years ago when my wife passed away suddenly. I spent a couple years wondering what I should do for female companionship, and then I thought that I should get involved with ladies again. I joined TER so that I could contact escorts who would 'provide' me with what I needed.
Let me tell you that there are soooo many beautiful ladies in this world, and ATL has more than its share. That is not to say that the Carolinas don't have equally beautiful, sensitive, tender, and caring ladies .
My experience has been that women in their 30s 40s and 50s usually fill the bill.
I have had many experiences, some with the younger girls and many with the more mature ladies.
I always look for ladies who will smile for the cameras and come across as caring, sensuous, and attractive women.
I love women in general, but those with a sense of humor, and a courtesan streak, and most important of all, those with dimples really turn me on.
Treat them all like ladies, be kind, loving and greatful for their existence, and they'll return your attitudes tenfold!
If you would like more advice, post a message with your TER address or PM.