surprised a certain ethnic group won't take their own kind.

Simple.

The asian man could be a friend of the girl's father, her father's  drinking buddy, the church pastor, neighbor, classmate, ex-husband, ex-boyfriend, fiance, etc.

And knowing how conservative the Asian community is, once the girl's reputation is ruined, so it the reputation of her family...

I am pretty new to the hobby I have called AMP's/agencies (in NYC), and have been asked whether I was asian, I told them I was but recieved no negative response.  Just wondering where these places are so I can avoid them.  If those places don't want asians as client, that is their loss.  My advice is to try a couple different AMPs/agencies.

Hey, I always wanted to see an Asian provider (I am not Asian). I was actually very dissapointed when I saw my first one. She drilled me on the phone....are you black ...no, I would say, but why...because i can't take the size .....When i saw her she was like a robot.......Stay away from providers and people in general that have issues with ethnicity , color etc.Hey man, it's almost 2005 and I really think we have better thing to do that deal with these kind of people that try to pick a perfect specimen. Move on to white, black,red , orange or any color in the Benetton spectrum.