Do any of you guys have any advice for me I have trouble relaxing to get an erection, and then keep it when I am with a woman?

I do not have trouble getting an erection by myself and can even masturbate within a few minutes of each other.

I have tried viagra to see if I it would help, but I guess when you are nervous even the viagra does not help.

Anyway, the last time that I was with a woman I used viagra and I got semi-erect, but could not cum.

I tested out viagra by myself and only noticed a quicker turnaround rate of the next erection; everything else worked the same as when I don't use it.

So the help I need is how do you guys relax and not think about getting an erection the whole time?  Has anyone else experienced this?

Also the woman I was with was totally amazing looking so that was not the problem.  She was very sexy, and nice the problem was me.

Thanks


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Don't waste your money on Viagra!  If you have no problems getting/maintaining an erection when you are alone, then there is very little chance you have problems that Viagra helps with.  Bottom line with viagra is this:  if you don't have the circulatory problem that causes problems ALL the time, then it is just a waste of money (I heard this straight from a rep of the company who makes it).  In fact, taking it can cause a dangerous drop in blood pressure.

If you only have this problem when with a woman, then it psychological, pure and simple.  Relax!  Maybe saving all that money by not wasting it on unecessary Viagra will help you relax.

Yah, maybe I guess I thought maybe some other guys might have experienced something similar and overcome it.

bikebryan,
Thanks for the info about viagra.  I didn't know that it could have long-term effects.  I was just experiencing a little with it.  

Thanks for the advice

Find a provider you like, and is understanding of your problem.
You need more intimacy and affection. Stick with her and I'm sure you will get over it. If you go from one provider to another it only makes the problem worse.

voyageur,

Thanks for the advice.

Heh, I've been there.  I usually take a mild sedative before my appointent like a xanax or valium and I take a 1/4 of a viagara.  This seems to calm me down and be ultra responsice to her.  At my usual place, they give you a table shower to start and the girls love thta I get hard just from them washing me.

The first time I tried Viagara  I felt terrible for the girl; I tipped jer an extra 50%; ot kept me rock hard and  couldn't cum to save my life.  I litteraly took aout 40 inutes of grinding cowgirl for me to het off.

Good luck, and remember, this is the one hour in you like that os a;; aout you and NO ONE else.

Thanks for sharing your personal experience, and for the advice.  I really appreciate it.

Kevin