Ithink if you are honest about your wants and your nervous points,most of us are really understanding and even would take the extra care or time to make you as comfortable as possible. If you are willing to spend the necessary extra to get her there comfortably,I can no reason why she wouldnt be everything you desire and more. I woul dgo to the forums and check out what men say,and also get a ffeel for the types of mens reviews you woul be intersted in. NOt all hobbyists are out for the same thing,find ones in your interests,and focus on the gals the found that gave them the wonderful experience you want. I always like to accommodating,nothing is too hard,you just have to ask. Thats all.Dfwmicky
First, some background. I am a first-time hobbyist, who is getting into the hobby (at least initially) to scratch a particular itch, so to speak. It's an appearance-based itch, so there should be nothing particularly unusual in terms of the goings-on during the visit, I'm looking for a nice GFE.
The problem is that my particular itch cannot be scratched within my locale. I would have to travel to see a provider who fits what I'm looking for. That said, I have some questions for the providers here (and any others who'd like to throw their two cents in)...
* Would I realistically have a chance at getting a visit with a provider in another city without any references, provided I contact her far enough in advance that she would be able to verify my information, and we can have a conversation or two over the phone or email to establish a comfort level and maybe find out if we can stand each other or not?
* I'm also looking for a visit longer than an hour or two. I think I've settled on three or four hours. Granted, an overnighter would be nice (and I could afford it), but I think an overnighter on my first evening in the hobby may be asking a bit much; I'll probably be pretty nervous. I'm just looking for a affectionate, non-rushed, GFE experience and don't think two hours is enough, because I'd like to have some cuddle/quiet time before she leaves. Would this influence her in any way?
I agree with most of what you said but I would not suggest offering a deposit. I think they are a bad idea except for extended stays with the ultraexclusive or if you are paying her to fly to you. It just makes it easier for her to stand you up when you pay in advance.
I don't know just how choosy GaTiger is but he sounds like he is very much where I was not long ago. He wants a GFE experience with a woman so lovely he knows he won't find in real life so he wants to live the fantasy - my needs as well.
My advice is to be prepared to explain your situation, share more personal information than normal since you have no references, research to make sure she will provide what you want, be polite, clean and generous.
Many top providers prefer multiple hours so they will welcome that and anyone interested will *want* to communicate with you before meeting you to feel safer about seeing you.
I did find a couple of providers in Atlanta I seriously considered meeting but I never went as far as to make e-mail contact. Depending on what Tiger wants, he may find it closer to home than he thinks. Or he may feel, as I did, that it was less risky to be in another town where nobody knows you.
First if you know what you want then definitely research using TER’s reviews. (*the question about a GFE in an unrushed two hour session is usually discussed within most reviews*)
Just in my opinion… an established provider is more likely to take the time to establish a level of comfort than a provider who is newer to the hobby. (*Either of which could be a consideration to both the questions posed. Specifically about having no references as well as the Ultimate GFE in a shorter time frame*)
Now, some words of encouragement...… I have seen new clients for an encounter that isn’t muti-hour or extended and the gentleman had an awesome experience. My personal opinion is that a hobbyist will get as much out of a GFE experience as he invests into it in regards to sharing information and feeling comfortable enough to get the entire experience. (*I have long believed that is it much easier to seduce a friend than it is a stranger..… By the same token, it is much easier to be seduced by a friend than a stranger*)
Just take the time to find the provider that offers the mannerisms and behavior you are looking for and make communication (*in a respectful and pleasing way*) to introduce yourself and make her acquaintance. Then let her know up front that you are willing to cooperate with her screening because you want her to feel comfortable. Most established providers will understand your situation and will work with you to deliver what you are looking for….. just my thoughts kisses ~Tori
Though I completely agree with most of the advise you have already been given, I would respectfully disagree on a couple of points. I would not consider an overnight with someone I had never met, if you don't "click" overnight can be a long time... I would also never send a deposit to someone I have never met for a simple two to four hour appointment.
Ithink if you are honest about your wants and your nervous points,most of us are really understanding and even would take the extra care or time to make you as comfortable as possible. If you are willing to spend the necessary extra to get her there comfortably,I can no reason why she wouldnt be everything you desire and more. I woul dgo to the forums and check out what men say,and also get a ffeel for the types of mens reviews you woul be intersted in. NOt all hobbyists are out for the same thing,find ones in your interests,and focus on the gals the found that gave them the wonderful experience you want. I always like to accommodating,nothing is too hard,you just have to ask. Thats all.Dfwmicky
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