Seeing a provider who's menu says she does anal.  During the session how should I ask for it?  I would like to be polite and be a gentleman.  Should I ask in the beginning what are her limits or should I just be blunt and ask for anal?

It might not be something she does all the time w/o preparation.  Some ladies will assess an extra charge for Greek, that is something else you could have determined beforehand.  Get VIP so you know ahead of time what items are on her menu, and if there is an upcharge for it.

I have vip and see it on her menu.  When I setup the appointment how should I go about asking for it in email or during phone conversation.

...but even then you may not get exactly what you want to know. Discussing it before you are actually in the room with her could get you canceled or hung up on (or deleted if e-mail) so waiting until you are there is the safest course. Politely ask once activities have begun. Asking upon arrival if you've never seen her before even though you passed her screening could make her wary of you and put a damper on the session. You may find that she will want to be prepared so you'll have to wait 'til next time. When it comes to some things in this activity of ours you just can't know for sure on the first visit. Just know that she may not be able to accommodate your desire on your first visit and be OK with that. Before leaving make plans for the greek tour on your second visit.

I'd rather wait for a future get together to do Greek.  It seems like it takes a little more trust which a stranger doesn't have the first time through the door.  If she's not completely comfortable I'm not going to be either.  Plus some won't do it if you're larger than normal.  Once it was a traveling provider and I knew I'd only have one chance so in my P411 communication I said I'd like to book for 90 minutes plus her referenced upcharge of $$$ for additional services.  I asked her later if how I had stated it was a problem and she said she appreciated how I had made my request.  They have to know ahead of time to be able to prep.  Believe me I've done it without prep and it can get messy, which can be a big problem... unless of course that's how you roll.

The first and only time I visited the islands the provider wanted me too. She initiated it. I personally didnt like it LOL and never ask for it, but I agree with this post. Meet they lady first, then before you leave ask her if you could on the next visit, provided that you have read her reviews and saw on her menu that it is offered in the first place.  

TER profiles, Eros ads, etc. generally make it clear, but I'm always amused when a BP ad leaves me wondering. Some say something like "enjoy travel to foreign lands." OK, I get that, but what about "private entrance in rear" or "garage parking available?" They might just be discrete and convenient. Sometimes a euphemism can go too far.

I didn't get the name Tunacan Jim for nothing so my size could be a problem.  Thanks for all the advice I'm going to wait until a second visit to ask for it so she can prepare.

Does not mean she will do it with you and I just read that you're thick so she might refuse on your size alone