I personally prefer e-mail, but that is not the issue. Read her web site completely. Some ladies want e-mail, some want phone calls, some want contact forms, and some want text messages. Using her preferred method always works best. The real key is to be polite, give her a safe feeling about yourself, do not discuss money, do not ask for a discount, and do not ask for sex.
Hello - I am new and found TER via references on BP. After reading and using a bit of TER it was clear to me what a tremendous and valuable site this is. I have just scratched the surface of the information available here and spend some time each day reading and looking. The architecture and management of this site is outstanding; kudos to those who developed and moderate this site. The professionalism of all who utilize the site is also clearly apparent. TER puts most social web sites to shame.
Sorry for my rambling and onto my question. Sorry if this has already been covered elsewhere (I’m been learning the search tool). Any advice on preferences around initial contact to a provider via e-mail vs. call or text. My own preference is to send an e-mail with a brief intro to give the provider an idea of me; it also gives me an additional perspective on the provider in the way she replies. I realize that providers must get swamped with e-mails so I would think it might be difficult to personally answer each e-mail not knowing who is serious. At this stage, I’m also a bit nervous (OK a lot nervous) so e-mail helps me communicate my thoughts better.
I have used TER to review my first potential provider and have sent her a couple of e-mails and left a couple of voice mails. Although her responses to the e-mail have been very brief, she was kind enough to respond to each.
Thanks for your feedback in advance and keep of the good work.
check their ads..some will say 'text only'...some only accept phone calls..otherwise e-mail..sign up for p411 and see the newbie friendly providers..they wont need a lot of references since your new..do your homework..check her reviews..go for it..keep trying if you dont succeed at first..there are plenty of women who would love to see you..relax..have fun..
It allows the provider to answer when she has the time. It also enables me to take my time to write an email that will get a reply. Many providers do not answer phone calls anyway, they simply let them go into voice mail, to many weirdoes calling and many providers have families to take care of or day jobs.
I also will contact providers using the TER pm and P411. By contacting a provider thru either TER and P411 it gives the provider some insurance I'm a serious hobbyist. Finally I do not use the providers contact form on her website. What I prefer is to send an email and give her all the info she requests on the on line contact form in my email to her. Just the way it is for me.
I've linked you to a section of the "self help center" that discusses contacting providers. If you haven't read the "the self help center" I recommend that you do. Good luck
it and respond when convenient. No need to keep the hobby phone "on" waiting for a call back to see if she can meet you tomorrow at noon for a happy lunch hour.
I will sometimes use the direct contact form through P411, but normally my contact is through email. Macdaddy is correct in that it does depend on the lady. Some prefer email only. Some say to text them. Some only want you to use the contact form on their website. When there is a choice, or if no preferred method is stated in their ads or website, I will use email.
I personally prefer e-mail, but that is not the issue. Read her web site completely. Some ladies want e-mail, some want phone calls, some want contact forms, and some want text messages. Using her preferred method always works best. The real key is to be polite, give her a safe feeling about yourself, do not discuss money, do not ask for a discount, and do not ask for sex.
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you should be able to determine what contact method she prefers. Use that. Personally, I prefer to use email first, but I will do what she wants. Just don't overdo it. Providers have tons of emails to go over (if they are busy), lots of calls to return, and even text messages. If you take up too much of her time with repeated contacting and not actually scheduling a date, she will mark you as a time-waster, and no longer respond to you. Do not expect every contact you make to a single provider to be answered if you don't make a date with her.
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Alot of us who are on here will only take emails. We have to do your verification first so calling us is really a waste of time. I don't have my phone on and don't return voicemails.
Email is the quickest way to get a response and it tells us you are serious also.
I am an email only provider and I find it is more convenient to return an email versus picking up the phone when you might not be able to talk.I appreciate the gents who take the time to send a short intro email along with their references.I also have gents sending me messages through TER pm or P411 messaging system.I will respond but if an appt request is sent through ter pm I will ask to have this info sent to my email.But,some providers prefer calling/texting than email everyone is different.
I would look at the providers you are interested in and see if they specify in their ads or website what type of communication she prefers.There are some providers who have an email address listed but never check emails or a phone# listed but never answer.
Bottom line if a lady specifies the way she prefers to be contacted use that way.If there is nothing specified in her ads and/or website use email.
Good luck to you!
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