What extra are you supposed to get for a 2 or more hour encounter?  I was under the impression that the extra hour = an extra hour (or maybe 45 mins) of playtime.

I recently had my first full-service encounter and made it for 2 hours...to my dismay it was 1 hour and 55 mins of unrelenting chatter, a quick BJ and maybe 25 secs of her on top.  This girl has lots of great reviews.  Am I expecting too much, or did I get robbed?  Sure seems like a waste of $500.

I think that the providers like to get you in for 2 hours for that first appointment under the guise of making you feel more comfortable.  One hour simply result in a little less chatter!  Save your money and go 1 hour.

Alot of times the reviewer has bought into the Providers idea that you should be honored just to be in her presence and that, in itself, is equal to your gift, anything else she may allow is strictly a bonus. Don't just glance at the score alone to decide, read ALL her reviews. The guys that see through the conceit will tell it plain and simple....the others will remain mesmerized by her spell...Consistant rates in performance are what should be your guide....If a Provider disappoints you, it is your obligation to post,if, to do nothing more than go on record that YMMV from client to client. Your pleasure should be her primary goal as a Provider, if it seems to be anything else then you are correct in feeling cheated. We provide a service, like your mechanic, now you wouldn't dream of paying the bill if you took your car into get a tune-up and all he did was change your oil, now would you..??

Two plus hour appointments should be reserved for someone you have already seen once --and really really enjoy their company. For a newbie, I wouldn't suggest it. But if it is your very first time with a provider, it would give you the time to get comfortable with her.
Rick2

You project the kind of attitude that I would expect from a superior provider.  I always book a 2 or more hour appointment, and have rarely been disappointed.  I carfully read TER reviews before committing.  I find that:

1.  2 or more hours is more relaxing for me, and I have no need to rush through anything in a situation that is built around pleasure.

2.  I find that I need more time to achieve a multiple cup session, and a longer appointment is necessary.  Otherwise, we are rushing, and that dilutes the enjoyment.

3.  I truly enjoy the company of my "dates".  "Vertical" time makes the "horizontal" time more intimate and exciting.

Good Luck in the future.  There are many providers out there, and I'm sure Silky, that you're one, that make 2+ hour appointments magical.

BTW, Squid, did you post a review of this unsatisfactory experience?  If not, you should.

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Normally 2 hours get you 2 cups.

I always book 2 hours because it helps establishing a connection and I really like talking to my dates, I find them usually very interesting persons. I do that even when it's my first time with a girl. Plus I'm not 20 anymore so if I want 2 rounds then I need some time to recover and 1 hour is not enough.

I have had problems a couple of times with providers that were really not into it that day and dragged the conversation for as long as one hour and more, but never had this bad an experience as you describe. When that happened I posted a review expressing my disapointment. I usually try to chat for 20 minutes 30 max then move on to more intimate matters, then chat while resting after the first round.

If you are a beginner 2 hours can help you relax (if you need it).

IMHO you just lucked out on this one, maybe she had a bad day or something. But also you have to give yourself a time limit when you just stop the conversation and suggest to get down to business. Some girls are happy to just sit and talk and if you do not make the move then too bad for you.

Anyway have fun, and best of luck next time.

That sounds like what happened.  She probably thought I should pay her the $500 just for her company for the two hours.  In any case, there was no whoopie involved.  I dunno, maybe she was just turned off by me or something, because everyone else that reviewed her said they at least got a piece.  I did my homework and she had no negative reviews.  

Whatever, probably won't be doing this again.

I have only had 1 "chatty cathy". I usually go for 2-3 hours, even on a first meeting.

Usually, the session will be a prolonged massage with a lot of cuddling and playing in between the most intimate maneuvers, a little talk both before and after and even more maneuvers.

Please post an honest review on your experience.

Well fotitude, I do my best..!!!LOL But to me the service we offer is just common sense....A quality provider who screens her clients, shouldn't need to mention money or payment up-front once your in her presence. To "Pay before you Play" seems to me like sitting down in a fine restaurant and being handed the menu and the bill together. Also by doing timed sessions, you remove the spontaneous mood and put both Provider and Client into the uncomfortable position of policeing (sp) their time together. I would rather have an open-ended time so that we can be free to relax and enjoy...Then...when the session is concluded, if the client felt that he didn't get the service he came for(NPI) I would never dream of excepting a dime.  That's where you as a CONSUMER need to take responsibility...!!! A good, honest provider is one that delivers as advertised and if your a good honest client will WANT to pay..!!! The only providers that should watch the clock, are high-volume, lower priced girls.....in that case it's like McDonalds...you pay up front....no frills....But if a well reviewed Provider does a "Movem in, Movem out" kind of business then in my estimation the service is ALL ABOUT HER, and not you. I don't care how much a Provider has been enhanced to look like Pamala Anderson, if her service SUCKS( and not in a good way) then she should become a model and not a SP.  Then again, there are those that will pay, just to be in her company, even if she's just painting her toenails.....if that's the case....everybody's happy....!!!! Kisses & Licks, Robyn

my dates have a mandatory 'chatty' time, over food or drink so we can both settle in and make sure we both want to continue.
is true that first dates take a bit more time to settle in, but you really should be given the opportunity for a 2nd go.
maybe you missed her hints, like when she told you to get comfortable and she went to the bathroom... when she came back, you had just taken off your shoes and loosened your tie?
maybe she didnt see the envelope/you didnt do that part?

with a first date, there are so many things that can go wrong and you cant really expect a lady to be safe to deal with who says Pleae Pay Me Now or Time To Get Nekkid.

yes, write a review and be honest not mean.
but personally, i would try again.
the more you do this, the more comfortable you are.  the more comfortable you are, the more at ease we are.
and thats when the fun really starts

have fun and play safe,
Nicole in atl.

I think you answered the question yourself.Sorry you got ripped off.LOL   Love,Nicolexoxox

Very nicely put silky...standing ovation !!!  I totally agree  and thats how I do business also.  
I find I usually spend much more time  than 1st agreed upon (1hr dates usually end up being 2 hours sometimes more if I really dig the guy )  but I never ask for any more than agreed upon, I rely on the generosity of the guy if he wasnts to show extra appreciation than great  I am pleasently supprized and he gets an A in my book  but if he doesnt  I just consider that "on me"  and its ok too
Again nicely put silky

I have to also agree with nichole (elcamino honey) advise.
1st times can be awkward and so many things can go wrong.
But Squid  i really think you shouldnt give up  just cause of one bad experience.  Im sorry you wasted your money  we all feel your pain  but it was only one girl one time..give it a anouther chance and keep some of this advise from everyone in the back of your mind...and you control the situation next time.
and get with some of the men on here directly  ask them who they like and whos good
Good Luck to you
Kara

Here's what you do.  Book an hour.  Arrive looking fabulous, smelling fabulous and being squeaky clean.  Treat the lady with an abundance of kindness and respect.  Then, rock her sexual world with passion and intensity.  You'll get closer to 2 hours almost every time.  Then, be a gentleman and tip her.  You'll have a great time, and, she won't forget you.  Good luck.