Hello everyone, I been a member for a while and I finally found a provider that I'm "willing" to take a chance on. Im in NJ if that helps. Anyway I'm scared as shit because I never did this before and I don't want to go to jail..lol.. Starting to shake just talking about it. Anyway Im just feeling a lot of pressure about not being able to before because of nerves or maybe this person a cop or something. She has a lot of good reviews and in my price range. So for you guys who done this a few times how was it your first time and were you a wreck of nerves going in? And the do and don'ts of being with a provider. I dont wanna mess this up or get caught out there. Thanks in advance guys, I love this website and the contributors of it.

Be kind guys!




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When you let your brain go nuts, it's hard to get it back.

If she's got a lot of positive reviews, you really have nothing to worry about.  The biggest thing to keep in mind is not whether she's in your price range, but rather do you think she's the right provider for you.  

If, in addition to a lot of good reviews here, she has a web site it's highly unlikely she's LE.  But keep in mind there are no guarantees in this game so if your nerves get to be too much of a problem this may not be the game for you.
You also might try PMing some of her most recent reviewers.

Alyssa is correct, don't overthink it.  As long as you have done your research that makes you feel comfortable, jump on in.  Stay with well reviewed providers, or at least reviews written by "seasoned" hobbyists, and you will be fine.  PM some of those that have reviewed the provider you are interested in, and ask for some more feedback on their experience.

If you are an adult and you are that scared to take the first step, you are not cut out.

Hell that's half the fun of it and as long as you have chosen a quality girl who has been escorting for a little while you will be just fine.

You are definitely correct. I may do it sometime this weekend. If we were In canada it would be a whole different story for me, Not really afraid of the escort per say, Just the possible jail time.

Very good advice.. Also luckily for me I'm not a drinker, plus I want my alertness to be 100% going into something like this for the first time.

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Hi guys, I'm sorry. I just realized I posted in the wrong area. Honest mistake.

Thanks AhappyCamper. Very solid advice.

I never thought of Pming the reviewer. Will try that.

Thanks.

Thanks truu11. Your post really put me at ease knowing we all are new at this at some point. I read your second review from the first and it was awesome how much more comfortable with it you seemed from the first.

haha!

If you already did your homework and chose somebody with good history of reviews (hopefully going back months if not years) the chance of being caught in a sting is very, very low.  

so, spend time reading up on here about how to cover your internet tracks among other trails a spouse could follow.

Then, have a stiff drink or two before the date and you'll do fine.


If you are still scared out of your wits, then maybe this is not for you.  It's supposed to be fun, not a trip to the dentist.

sorry but what is a SO? If its significant other then that won't be a problem. Im single

internet and it is done on the daily. That is perfectly legal sweetheart. What happens between two consenting adults behind closed doors is also no ones business nor should it be.

It's where newbies go for advice from "experienced" guys.  Not really very complicated, my lord.

Just realx and go with the flow....you have to find clients who you are comfortable with....make them send you a pic of their drivers license and subscribe to intelius to screen them....  call me I am in florida and am a long time conoisseur of the ladies in our hobby...just relax and be yourtsel  three eight six three four one one three four eirght

Is there a presence of LE on preferred 411 and this site as Ive been told? I'm in Phoenix btw

I was NERVOUS AS HELL the first time.
Yes, there is a lot that can go on in your mind when just getting started - so you are well within the normal range, don't worry about that.

an asian massage parlor a few times. Not sure it that will help you but that's how I started and then eventually ventured in to see a provider.

Between the INS raiding places for illegals and the FBI looking for trafficking, only a skilled hobbyist should think of going to them.

It's regrettable but true.   I remember the heady days of 20 years ago when AMPs flourished and I had a ball visiting them, but now I'm very gun shy to go to them.

Maybe it's a regional thing. Don't know how it is in Boston, but very little risk here.

The chance of being caught in an AMP/AAMP raid is exceeding rare. Your luck has to be real bad!

However, if the guy is looking for a GFE experience, I'd recommend he find an escort who is the right fit.
That is not part of the typical AMP experience.

I'm curious about something. You do state that it is not illegal to have sex with a person you meet online and that sex between two consenting adults is not illegal, as we all should already know. However, how do you get around the "money not exchanging for sex" scenario if money is placed in your bathroom by the guy. If LE does come in how do you explain that the money in the envelope was either not for sex or not given by the guy?