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Re: Younger Hobbyists
mminanton 3 Reviews 1294 reads
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I sort of disagree here. However, YMMV, as I've been unnatractive to women since 18/19 (and still am). I saw my first provider around that age; due to ecstasy and booze, I don't remember the exact age.

I will tell you just because your 19, you may need the confidence, or the teachings of a provider to help you gain some balls. Or train you how to give an actual orgasm.

Not everyone goes through the same thing, some don't lose their virginity at the normal 14-17, some have issues, weren't born good looking, or are just sort of awkward with women. I lost mine at 18 but only by chance, and oddly not to a provider..somehow..

I learn from every session, and I'm pretty good in bed --but if not for PROVIDERS, I would suck. So why not start at a young age? I always see these women as teachers as well, why not learn some technique when young?

Your being paid to service though, perhaps you can teach instead of having them being 'less than pleasant'.If you can tell they aren't experienced, perhaps help them.. I've had women do this for me, and it was amazing... While I don't say your pleasure doesn't matter, to the contrary, not everyone that pays you to have sex with them is going to be a stunner in the sack.

I do agree that extra screening should be provided as it's more risky, but if they can pass that , why should they be denied?

I've had providers telling me I've barely made the cut at 29... I am young and rather sucessfull...I'd say while I respect personal preferences, throwing a generlization at everyone under 30 is a bit rediculous.

-M

switch2223163 reads

What is the youngest age that providers see. I myself am 19 and am touring miami.

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sweetamanda1261 reads

It depends on the provider. Many will not see guys under 30 or 35. Many will. Often providers will post on their sites if they have an age limit. If you're having trouble finding an independent woman who sees younger guys, agencies MIGHT be a better option for you? (Maybe someone else can help confirm or dispute that...)

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I_like_escorts1534 reads

Amandaprescott, you're right.  Agencies are a great way, and maybe the only way, for a young hobbyist to get started.  The reason is choice, or lack thereof.  Agency providers usually see whoever they're scheduled with, and they can't easily back out because of the hobbyist's age.  So while it's a downside for agency women, it works to young guys' advantage.

I myself got started that way, after getting rejected by independents many times.  So I switched to agencies, and had a few good experiences.  Interestingly, after having a few appointments with agency providers, I now have a much easier time scheduling with independents; I only had one NCNS in the past six months.

Most providers I saw seemed a little surprised to see someone in his 20's.  But except one, all of them responded to it nicely; I guess a young guy was an interesting change of pace for them.

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Madame X1613 reads

I usually (read = almost always) stay to guys in the 30+ range, but it's not that I don't *like* younger guys. It's just that issues like lack of respect, blurred boundaries, time wasting and the dreaded ncns seem to be more prevalent when arranging dates with 20 somethings.

If a gent has stellar references that indicate that he's polite, well groomed and respectful, I won't even ask his age save for curiosity's sake... I'm just 25, so I think it might be hypocritical to set a hard rule around it. Wouldn't I want to see myself? lol.

Agencies are a great way to get those references :)

Maxine

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MochaNautteBBW1364 reads

Personally, i wouldn't see someone that's young enough to be my brother (I'm 24).

I've never been attracted to younger men. I don't find them appealing

Ever since I was 17, I've always loved and adored older men.

My experiences with younger clients have been less than pleasant. None of them had any clue on how to please a lady.

19 is too young to be involved in the hobby. At that age, a guy should be dating a girl...not paying for a provider's services.

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mminanton1295 reads

I sort of disagree here. However, YMMV, as I've been unnatractive to women since 18/19 (and still am). I saw my first provider around that age; due to ecstasy and booze, I don't remember the exact age.

I will tell you just because your 19, you may need the confidence, or the teachings of a provider to help you gain some balls. Or train you how to give an actual orgasm.

Not everyone goes through the same thing, some don't lose their virginity at the normal 14-17, some have issues, weren't born good looking, or are just sort of awkward with women. I lost mine at 18 but only by chance, and oddly not to a provider..somehow..

I learn from every session, and I'm pretty good in bed --but if not for PROVIDERS, I would suck. So why not start at a young age? I always see these women as teachers as well, why not learn some technique when young?

Your being paid to service though, perhaps you can teach instead of having them being 'less than pleasant'.If you can tell they aren't experienced, perhaps help them.. I've had women do this for me, and it was amazing... While I don't say your pleasure doesn't matter, to the contrary, not everyone that pays you to have sex with them is going to be a stunner in the sack.

I do agree that extra screening should be provided as it's more risky, but if they can pass that , why should they be denied?

I've had providers telling me I've barely made the cut at 29... I am young and rather sucessfull...I'd say while I respect personal preferences, throwing a generlization at everyone under 30 is a bit rediculous.

-M

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Johnny Apple-seed1524 reads

I'm in my 20's and have never had a problem getting appointments.... I don't know.  I found the opposite...it seems like the girls I've seen have liked that I was around their age as we had more in common.  Of course, I only see girls on the high end of the donation range...From talking with them, they don't seem to have as much of those problems with clients, since only a few guys can afford to pay their rate and clients are usually trying to impress them and their screening is pretty darn rigorous.  19 is pretty young though.... I remember that there was plenty of nice college girls at that age....  It's when you start getting busy with your career that you start calling providers as an easy fix.  As long as you have good references and a nice job, you shouldn't have trouble getting an appointment.

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balathazar1701 reads

You're touring? Are you a provider? I am assuming you are a potential hobbyist by your question. The term touring is mostly used by providers when travelling.

As a hobbyist, at age 19, there is a wide view on this. Read this thread:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=31621&boardID=33&page=

Also the Love Goddess was asked:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=7069&boardID=20&page=1

As For your original question as to what is the youngest age that providers (in general) will see, that would be the age of consent (18). Just be aware there are quite a few ladies out there that will not see anyone under a set age (mostly around 30-35) for personal reasons. I am sure you could find providers that will see 19 year old clients, just be sure you maintain a high level of maturity in your dealings with these ladies. Your reputation will build and that can only be a good thing.

If you become a flake or act like a rude fratboy, that reputation will also build and that can only be a bad thing. Good luck.

b-

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Sinful11633 reads

are impossible to answer.  Every provider is different.  Some will see gents as young as 18, others 21, or others have higher minimum age requirements.

Best to look at the provider's specific site for her minimums.

Be safe and enjoy your erotic adventures!

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CR9871417 reads

I started at age 25 and have never had any issue. Some girls have been a little surprised I think, but for the most part I think they didn't care or even enjoyed someone their own age (I see mainly girls in their 20's). Just contact each girl without mentioning your age. If they ask, be honest, but otherwise don't bring it up. I doubt any providors will suddenly not see you if they don't ask beforehand.

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sheri7141016 reads

My general rule is 25+

I get a surprising number of requests from guys between 18-21! That is just too young for me as im in my mid 30's and would feel pervy!

Plus, no offense, and maybe guys today are wiser, but i remember in High School just being jackhammered by Energizer Bunnies, having my boobs twisted like tuning a radio, etc

Its not the number of MSOG they want really, I almost never see a man between 35-60 who doesnt do 2 or even 3 (one man who i will never forget was 43 and did 5 in 90 minutes, high fives to him)

Its the finesse they use to get those MSOG's

Being jackhammered while a guy went three times would put me out of commision for a few days!

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