Either way, you need to read the Newbie Manual which is linked at the top of the page.  You will find out all you need to know about how to use this site and meet the people you want to meet.

I also suggest reading this and other boards of interest as often there are discussions that lead to a lot of good ideas being tossed around.

Best wishes to you.

Read the newbie manual. There will be a lot of info in there. Read the TER boards, and read them extensively.

Don't try to jump the gun now. Parading in guns a blazing is a good way to screw up and get caught.

Learn how to be discreet. The number one most imporant thing in this hobby is discresion. Learn it. Know it. Always practice it.

Do NOT...let me repeat...do NOT see a provider who doesn't have good reviews. 1 review doesn't cut it. 5 reviews doesn't cut it. I do a minimum of 15 reviews. The more the better.

Join some 3rd party verification sites, such as preferred 411.

Try with an agency first. Once you've gotten your feet wet and think you know what you're doing with this hobby, then try some indies.

And remember.......have fun with this. Treat these wonderful ladies well, and you'll be rewarded in more ways than one.

That would be Washington DC. Lurk around for awhile and get the feel. There are many experienced hobbyist on the board. Just limit your posts, or don't post at all. Remember you only get a chance to make a first impression once.