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Re: you guys crack me up...open your minds a lil bit, god forbid, you all think the same, its kinda
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and I will be honest...I may be folding it in anyhow, not sure I can be in the same company with people who are just ridiculous followers...not my style...there are leaders and there are followers...clearly there are no leaders in this lil community, so I may be saying adios, idk yet...maybe one of you will surprise me but I highly doubt it

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I'm confused, how long does it take to post, I think he submitted it last week. Also, how do I view it and when can I create my own profile. Ty

Brianna Blue

if so, TER sometimes holds the review until they know everything was on the up and up. Also, as you'll find out in time, lots of guys promise to write reviews when they're finishing a session with the provider, but then the review never gets written.

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how do I find if the review is posted by him...do I get a message from TER or am I jsut supposed to know

...I won't be surprised if when your review is posted, it will show you are a tranny because you sure have a giant set of balls on you lady.

...in this post.  It answers your question about your profile and some other things that may prove helpful. I wrote it to another provider a while back. Letting you read it was easier than writing it all again.

What a previous poster said is true. If the guy that wrote your first review is also a newbie 1st time reviewer TER may take a while to post the review.

Great to here that you will soon have a review.

This will answer your question about how to search for your review too.

NEVER let a client log into their TER account from your computer.  TER can detect it & will delist you.  It looks like a prohibited review (self review, fake, bf or family member).

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thanks but thats not the case. he is legitimate by all accounts, just didn't think it would take this long for ter to review the review lol. interesting, since you all dont see providers without a review apparently...which i think is a bit hilarious personally......

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Honestly, you dont want to know my thoughts on that...particularly I dont really care about reviews as I know there are many higher end women who aren't on here and do rather well...I only came on here to see what all the fuss was about, but I haven't gotten a thing out of it, so if the review gets posted, great, if it doesn't, I don't particularly care. The gentlemen who have the 'balls' to meet a real woman and think 'outside' this little box called TER are the gentlemen I'd prefer seeing anyway...

that's coming from a 'real' woman whether you like it or not...if it breaks me, oh well, if it makes me, great...but I'm not expecting this place to get me anywhere. Once my site is up which I am designing myself and trust me it is unlike any other, I hope it will bring the clients I truly am looking for...and no, they don't need to be on here thats for sure

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yea, I'm trying to tell you all...kinda sick of hearing it...turn the tables...imagine yourself, the 'hobbyiests' that you claim to be...imagine if all of us providers wouldn't see you because of the reviews you've all written...how would you feel then being shut down for the simple fact that you wrote reviews and no provider will see you now...and we were all on the same stupid page...that would kinda suck huh for you all...just a thought...but i'm sure it will go in one ear and out the other like everything else ive tried to state on here..waste of time.

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and I will be honest...I may be folding it in anyhow, not sure I can be in the same company with people who are just ridiculous followers...not my style...there are leaders and there are followers...clearly there are no leaders in this lil community, so I may be saying adios, idk yet...maybe one of you will surprise me but I highly doubt it

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Just a woman with a voice and realness you boys obviously can't handle...continue in your world, I will tend to mine my way, that is all... and sorry to disappoint you I'm all woman...

There are men, believe it or not who lurk, and they will watch everything you do online before they decide to book an appointment. A bad attitude will ruin you faster then anything. You're attitude is probably being discussed in the back channel. Are you absolutely sure there are no leaders in this community? Hang out, quietly for awhile, and you might be enlightened.

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sorry but especially not in this business will I be that way if I'm not that way in my 'real' life...if it means kissing up to anyone, then I'm out...this is about finding men, and trust me I've found a few, who understand my point...they are in the 2% probably and my chances of finding them are harder than the average. But I will not 'sell' myself more than I already am...why would you???

providers.  Clearly, more experienced hobbiests do.  With that experience, comes the spidy senses to avoid unpleasant situations.
Additionally, a board presence...  chatting on the boards...  can & has lead to familiarity, PMs & meetings.  
HV

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The tip on computers...  new providers have gotten into trouble by letting the client write the review before leaving...  not knowing it was against the rules & detectable!  Wrong way to start with TER...

...this isn't the first time it's been explained to bb that it's newbies we recommend don't see providers without reviews.

any assistance because you seem to know it all.

One more try, to succeed in TER land you need TER reviews. Sure, the TER system is somewhat slow at times, deal with it.

What providers and hobbyists don't need is uncle leo getting involved. Advice given on TER is not a sure thing to keep LE away, but it sure helps.

Maybe your insults were because you have gotten tipsy from your favorite adult beverage.

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Unfortunately no adult beverage, just a pissed of woman in this lil 'closed' society which I have decided after a week, I do not agree with whatsoever. I'd rather meet with newbie hobbyiests who don't think they know it all, that is more exciting for me anyway and certainly they will have a lot more dignity and respectability which you boys have obviously forgotten even in this 'candy' world and how you think you have a right to treat a woman...we are still human beings, paying or not paying for services...be gentlemen...is that really that much to ask...good lord

Like I've stated many times before it that means one guy a month for me, but he actually 'gets it'...then that is success to me...you have all been tainted by woman who are in it for the 'quantity'...like I said when you're men enough to be ready to be with a 'real' woman who will offer you more than the surface thing...feel free to email, altho i highly doubt that will happen. And don't get me wrong, I'm a complete sweetheart, just am surprised and disappointed in how this whole industry thing has been worked...and I simply don't agree with it, so I'll do it my way.

The way you feel, is the way EVERY provider feels at some point. The thing is, there are fewer clients out there than you think who haven't heard of this site. And yea, some of them are newbies who just don't know any better. But more of them are the type of men who don't care enough, and don't regard escorts highly enough, to look for meaningful encounters with women of quality. I speak from experience. I used to get paid 1500+/hr and wasn't on TER, but I was looked down upon by the men who saw this business as 1-800-DIAL-A-HO. On TER, I might not get paid as much and I might not be rated as highly as I'd like, but at least I'm appreciated. These men know us girls and know we're all human. And believe me, I AM picky about who I see.

The men here are, by and large, on these boards because they want to help. You want to see men who desire quality? Those are the men who tried to give you advice and you just insulted them. You disagree with them? Then say thank you and go on your merry little way, like the mature woman you claim to be.

They are speaking from experience, you are speaking from a sense of entitlement. This won't be as easy as you think. So many women feel the same way you do, and they are all just as pretty and educated and classy as you are. Some of them more so. Just like any other job, you have to kiss the ass of people who you feel don't deserve it. Like any other job, you need to be humble. Like any other job, when you think you know it all and you're too good to listen to people who try to help you, that's when you get hit with reality.

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