What is the appropriate amount of time to wait to hear from a provider on an appointment request before moving on.

I only play on the road so my time frames are very limited.  I have a lady I really want to play with and she indicated that she loves phones calls and if she doesn't answer to text. I have done both and no response back and it has been 24 hours.  My only opening is now 24 hours away.

Should I try to contact through P411 or her website page or move on to a second choice?

Does she have a weekly/monthly calendar or schedule posted on her site?  If so, did you check to see if she's unavailable or touring right now?

If she either doesn't have a current schedule posted, or she does but is showing she's available this week..... well, then maybe send her one more text and tell her that you'd really like to meet her but if she can't get back to you by a certain time today, then you'll no longer be able to make it work with your schedule.

And if  you see she's logged in to P411 recently, then yes, send her a PM or Appointment Request there too.  

If that doesn't light a fire under her ass, I don't know what will.  

So if you don't get a response by your designated time, contact your next choice.  ;-

Thank you for your response. She does not show a schedule or out of town and I did notice that she has not logged on since 9/8.  That was a concern that I had but wasn't sure what to make of it.

I don't want to be pushy or appear needy so thank you for your insight.

...move on.  
Life's too short and there are soooo many providers out there.

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Well since your on a 24 window of opportunity I would say 2 hrs or less. Do take not though tht some providers either require reference and or notice in advance or ask for a non ref new guy rate and more than likely no outcalls for that. I do new guy rate for that.

Rose

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so now you have few options.  I'd say to call her one more time, leave a message & put a time limit on it...  if I don't hear from you by 2PM today, Thursday the 15th, I'll assume you are unavailable.  It's OK to leave a message on my Private Line.  Thank you.

You have been respectful & not burned the bridge but your window is closing.  You should have had a plan B.  I made a mistake recently, not replacing my Favs who had retired, so if a plan falls through, I don't have someone who does not need verification.  
I did have one such...  I'd booked with one gal who had to leave hurriedly because of a death in the family...  I made my 'morning of' confirmation call just before getting on the highway (long drive) & discovered that there was a problem.  I was able to book another Fav for later on...

Thank you all who replied.  Very helpful info.

Let me fill in a few details.

I don't play a lot and have only played with 2 ladies.  It is not about the play but more about something that strikes me with the ladies available where I am.  I don't play at home.

When I got to town I started looking and when I knew my schedule was open I had found 1 maybe 2 I would like to meet with. The second was a distant second to first choice. I always like to plan as far in advance as possible.

I started trying to contact more than 48 hours in advance. Her website indicated she would like 24 hours notice so I thought I was safe. It seems like it always takes providers a long time to get back to me.  I really didn't want to go to option 2 so wanted to give it the appropriate amount of time.

She did immediately reply to my text yesterday and we have something set for tonight.  She asked for my screening info and I am to call to confirm this afternoon.

I know that our schedules do not always lend themselves to immediate responses but I wasn't sure what was appropriate or being pushy etc.

Again thanks to all.  I appreciate your feedback. Very helpful.

then I wouldn't wait long.

Now, if you planned ahead and tried to schedule a week ahead or more, I would give her about 48 hours then move on.