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Re: yes but not having vip would mean 300-400 probably much more wasted
no I wasn't being hostile. At least it wasn't intended that way.
What you could do is, favorite your favorite providers and during the days you got vip just copy paste that profile into your email in HTML format. That way you got her profile saved for the rainy days and you can look them up later when needed. Some info might change in the future but the basic menu themselves rarely change, most changes being that it's going from "Don't know" to something known.I have seen a number of providers, but have only written reviews for the ones that really knock my socks off, so I only have sporadic access to the VIP section on TER. For that reason, I usually cannot see a provider's menu items on TER. I do most of my bookings through P411, but not every providers lists what's on the menu. For me, BBBJ is a prerequisite, so for those providers who don't list their services on their P411 profile, I typically ask if BBBJ is on the menu in my appointment request.
This has never been a problem before, but recently a provider responded that she now refused to see me because I had asked about a "sex act." Is there a better way to approach this? I think it's only fair that I know whether a service that is important to me is offered before I make an appointment.
Appreciate any advice.
It's a small amount of money to pay considering the cost of seeing a gal.
If you are that tight for the dough, you can also get 2 days of VIP for each problem report you turn in that corrects a bad website, etc. You can spend a little time going through profiles and checking out the links, then reporting the bad ones each time you want to make a selection.
You're right to know what you are getting does not trump a gal's right to be safe from guys who ask about menu because that could lead her to get in trouble with LE.
I didn't know about getting temporary VIP for problem reports.
You're right to know what you are getting does not trump a gal's right to be safe from guys who ask about menu because that could lead her to get in trouble with LE.
during those times... I take notes. I've rarely asked about menu but often she's forgotten by the time we get together. Most normal things are in reviews. The awkward thing is Greek where prep is often required.. and possibly prior approval. I'd ask in private & schedule a repeat... if she could stop laughing.
it saves you a whole lot of trouble down the road if you have vip.
such as accurate photos, performance, looks, and whether or not the girl is even worth the time doing your research...
as you've experienced, some providers don't like to discuss specifics and will refuse to see you. why risk that just to save on vip
might even run in to LE if you don't have the right tools to protect yourself.
plus you're on a review site and you're complaining about not being able to see vip menus when the solution is very simple.
either risk being on deny list by continuing to make provider uncomfortable by asking specifics or just have the necessary tools at your disposal so that you don't come off looking like a creep to those ladies.
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no I wasn't being hostile. At least it wasn't intended that way.
What you could do is, favorite your favorite providers and during the days you got vip just copy paste that profile into your email in HTML format. That way you got her profile saved for the rainy days and you can look them up later when needed. Some info might change in the future but the basic menu themselves rarely change, most changes being that it's going from "Don't know" to something known.
I've got a review in the approval queue for a great girl I saw yesterday, so I'll try to make the most of the VIP time while I have it.
you have choices. 1. write reviews even if she didn't 'knock your socks off'. 2. do problem reports. 3. pony up the money for VIP, it's not that much compared to what you probably spend on providers. VIP is a much needed aspect of proper research on providers.
While I sympathize with your problem, I agree with the provider you asked. Her safety is more important to her then you getting a BBBJ.
Swim
but one sure needs VIP to properly research a provider prior to booking. I absolutely agree that it's foolish to risk the cost of a date but not do the much lesser cost for researching.
Since you already have p411 .... click on the link and read what I posted just two other day regarding how you can "ask these questions" without asking these questions.
In the meantime, I'm using my current VIP status to do as much research as I can for later!
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