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Re: Write the review...
That's what this place is all about. Your first experience sucked. Help out the next guy, by sharing that information. As for your less than stellar experience, don't let that be the deciding factor as to whether you try again or not. There are some terific ladies who can change your whole outlook.
Was in vegas and looking for a GFE provider. I searched it out for about a week. Found a girl who was visiting and reviewed and was just what I was looking for but she wasn't avilable on that day.Took a chance on one that wasn't reviewed, bad mistake! not even the girl in the picture,(she looked good in her black short dress but as soon as the dress came off I cound tell why she wore that style). Anyway we were off to the upsell.(almost double). She tried her best to please but it just wasn't doing it for me, one of those I should have stayed home! My question is should I write a review on her or just leave it alone? P.S. I think this did me in as far as this hobby goes. I've got enough bad habits already!
Thanks'
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER see an unreviewed provider in Las Vegas(or anywhere else in my opinion). Las Vegas however is notorious for this stuff. But you learned that lessen that hard way.
Yes review the date, it will help fellow hobbyists.
Now call or email a well reviewed lady and set up a real experience to remember.
Thanks' Biglittleguy But how to go about writing the review? to me it was a ripoff but she did try just didn't offer much, no,bbbj no daty (not that I wanted to with that) no touch inside,no kissing, like I say not the gfe I was hoping for but don't want to slam her either.
If she was not the lady in the pics, she didn't offer the menu as stated, and she was upselling you she was a rip off. You can write it gently if you choose, just write it please.
The thing is with no reviews she really dosen't have a menu. I will write the review, your right others need to know!
Thanks' guys
For the menu, just mention the up selling, we all know what it means.
Stroker,
All newbies should read your post. You should write the review, as the other post mentioned it will help all others. I would encourage you to try one more time. You did everything correct, up to point. You know the errors of your way, so I will not dump on you. Just think with the big head, as you started to do, and never think with the little one. Stay with well reviewed escorts and you should have a great experience. Once you realized it was a bait/switch, you should have offered a small appearance/cancellation fee to her and left. Oh well, live and learn!
You might have fumbled, but she committed a foul in the end zone and was out of bounds as well.
A ten yard penalty is in order.
Too bad you can't repeat the down.
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That's what this place is all about. Your first experience sucked. Help out the next guy, by sharing that information. As for your less than stellar experience, don't let that be the deciding factor as to whether you try again or not. There are some terific ladies who can change your whole outlook.
The first thing these fine Gentlemen say here on TER is DO YOUR HOMEWORK!! The Gents that are pro's at hobbying say all the time to go with REVIEWED Providers, if i may ask why did you go with someone who wasn't?? The Gentlemen here on TER are some of the most intelligent men around (seriously) any Hobbyist puts time and effort into seeking and finding a woman he truly wants to be with, and they go as far as private PMing other Hobbyists that has seen the woman their interested in as well...You my darling man, didn't do your homework i'm sorry to say!
Don't abandon ship just yet, there ARE wonderful,intelligent independent Providers out there willing to make your next go around a GREAT experience!
Grace
All's I can say is that I tried. The First girl that I wanted was reviewed on ter and had wonderful reviews (don't think I can mention names on here).Problem for us newbys is that we are very hard to verify, she was working with me on that until she had a family matter to address and wasn't able to see me. She was from LA and was just visiting. I had asked her about the other girl but she didn't know her. And yes you are right I'm the dumb ass here. Since I wrote this I did email her and told her I what a mistake it was, She wrote me back asking for some details as to what went wrong and were working on seeing her when she returns! I can only hope!
Vegas is a well known mine field of B&S (bait & switch) and upselling. But you CAN find excellent GFE providers by looking through the reviews and spending some time on the Las Vegas board (look left in the REGIONAL BOARDS).
It's what I did when I lost my hobby cherry in Vegas and I had a great time..
So write the review in all the honest details to perhaps save somebody else from your fate, and give it another try after doing the homework assignment.
C_K
-- Modified on 10/8/2009 1:18:46 PM
the review. The date did take place.
Your post and then the review should be required reading for all newbies. Don't let the little head dictate to the big head what should be done. Sometimes you have to walk away.
You are right veteran does sound better. Like I said I thought it might be doable until the dress came off! Even the little head was telling me what a mistake I had made!
You are right but as I look through the readings #s they aren't reading the advice you are giving me which is a shame! Thanks' to all you (veterans!)
Myabe my tolerance is way low today .... but ...
I don't think you can blame her for all the problems: "it just wasn't doing it for me"
How many red flags are you going to ignore??
Your researched girl was not availible, but you didn't have a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th girl researched that you could fall back on?
You are a member of TER, but did't follow the any of the guidelines offered.
You are a member of TER, but didn't come back to find another girl. You simply went with an unknown girl.
The girl who showed up did NOT match the picture ... yet you continued instead of closing the door.
The girl tried to UPSELL you to TWICE the rate. You not only didn't stop the date there, but paid the upsell rate!
You don't say this was your first hobby experience, so I'm not letting that be an excuse. If this was your first hobby experience than it was a GREAT experience -- you have learned an extremely valuable lesson that you will not repeat again.
There is no lesson learned as well as a lesson that has cost you money.
IF IF IF IF IF you have learned your lesson, then reread the newbie manual. After that, then your next date should be oh so easy and enjoyable!!!
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