I called a girl for outcall and had to send her away because she didn't look as advertised. I did the sending away while we drank champagne, trying to make it as hurtless as possible. I told her it was late and she did not look as advertised but she's hot (lie). She demanded half of the fees. I gave her what she demanded + tips and she took off. I guess I was afraid that not compensating her would cause trouble after that since now she knows where I live!

May I know if anyone else had this experience, how did you handle it and was I ripped off? What's the best way of handling situations like this?

I know there are other posts out there about declining outcall providers but wanted to relate it to my experience above.

not after sitting with her drinking champagne.

unfortunately I went with one of the advertised co-eds. It was late at night and most girls from TER were not available. A lot of the girls here have been reviewed 1 or 2 times anyway and her pix was hot so I thought what the hey. Big Costly Mistake!

I think it's fair to give a reason for cancellation (even if its a white lie) and whatever the cancellation fee is before wasting any time. If it was a bait and switch then thats one thing but if it was just lack of research and judgment or not quite exactly what you expected then she should be compensated for her time and travels.

Read this enlightening confession from a former B&S girl:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=131204&boardID=9&page=


So, I think the girl in your case fully expected to be turned away (at least most of the time).

Thanks for the link.
You're right, it was probably a bait & switch.

Firstly, when I called the agency who was available, she just told me to take my pick from the website. I picked one and she immediately said yeah she's available and will call me.

Then, when the girl arrived she acted all disinterested and pretty much not into it. No hugs nothing. Dang.

ok gotit

damn i just found out for sure that the agency totally bait n switched me. is there a way i can post info on the agency and who the provider was given to warn others on TER??

That's the name of the game.

Being a newbie here is great to learn all the wisdom that I can get from you guys!

to your crib; too much can go wrong.

you got ripped off plain and simple. Next time, tell the girl, if its not you in the photo, i am sending you away but still give you a cancellation fee. If she shows up and its not her, send her away with no cxl fee..if she says u said cxl fee, tell her you lied too LOL

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