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Re: Why? (Re: Run don't walk , from this provider!)
casinostocks 7 Reviews 554 reads
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The OP presented in his post this gem of a statement from the said provider: "customers I've seen for a while or that are married" While it would be quite naive of any client to think that providers do not bareback someone (or have not barebacked someone recently), it seems that (if you believe the OP) this particular provider has a different set of standards as defined by either her "regulars" or "married clients" If that truly is the criteria for BBFS, can you really trust that this takes any measurable precaution when it comes to any aspect of the hobby?

Funny that you mentioned "swallow" in your closing sentence! I personally had couple of sessions with two different providers who in the heat of the moment performed NQNS and while it was very gratifying to my primal senses, I was very concerned as soon as the after-glow had worn off, and I am not planning to go back. If one is not in an exclusive relationship with someone (applies to the civvie world too, as I am not merely focusing on providers) and performs sexual acts of higher risk magnitude with a person not too well know to him/her, then he/she will probably follows the same procedure with as many ;)

notime2lose4u2307 reads

Third provider I recently visited were chatting after our time together. She mentioned how she does bbfs for "customers I've seen for a while or that are married".

I'm a newb, so is this common? To me it's risky and puts me at risk. Should this have been conveyed prior to our meeting? or am I just foreign to all this?

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swimtrekr1039 reads

IMHO, she should have told you she would do bbfs when she knows you better.  If I were you, I would just keep on walking the other way, REAL FAST!!!!!

Swim

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PittPanther1354 reads

I'm confused as to why you guys think he should not see this provider again.

Just because she mentioned what SHE offers, that does not mean that HE needs to change his behavior. If his standards are to use condoms always, then he should continue to do that, while still seeing this provider if he wishes. After all, the only difference between this provider and the others he may visit is that this one told him what she does.

I submit to you that most providers are barebacking SOMEONE - it might be other clients, it might be their boyfriend, it might be their pimp. But given the number of providers that turn up pregnant, it's obvious that BB sex is happening.

The OP should behave as if ALL providers BB. If that's too tough for him (or anyone) to swallow, they should find a new hobby.

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casinostocks555 reads

The OP presented in his post this gem of a statement from the said provider: "customers I've seen for a while or that are married" While it would be quite naive of any client to think that providers do not bareback someone (or have not barebacked someone recently), it seems that (if you believe the OP) this particular provider has a different set of standards as defined by either her "regulars" or "married clients" If that truly is the criteria for BBFS, can you really trust that this takes any measurable precaution when it comes to any aspect of the hobby?

Funny that you mentioned "swallow" in your closing sentence! I personally had couple of sessions with two different providers who in the heat of the moment performed NQNS and while it was very gratifying to my primal senses, I was very concerned as soon as the after-glow had worn off, and I am not planning to go back. If one is not in an exclusive relationship with someone (applies to the civvie world too, as I am not merely focusing on providers) and performs sexual acts of higher risk magnitude with a person not too well know to him/her, then he/she will probably follows the same procedure with as many ;)

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scoed1234 reads

They work on preventing the spread of std's by reducing odds. If a lady is seeing other clients and BBFS/BB anal them her odds of having a STD goes up dramatically. If she has a STD the condom only reduces the odds of spread, not eliminate the risks of spreading an STD. So by seeing a lady who you know does not play safe you up your risks of an STD by a mensurable amount.

Yes many providers do BBFS/BB anal there SO but if that is only one then it is much different than BBFS/BB anal clients. The risks are much higher. I would always run from a provider that BBFS/BB anal a client, as buy her not playing safe it ups my risks. Why do that when there are ladies who do play safe?

I don't even BBFS my wife any more do to the STD risks as we both see others. Condoms are not 100% effective at preventing anything even if they don't break and only if we all protect each other by playing safe can we stop the spread of STD's in the hobby.

Yes BB sex does happen, and yes, you should always behave as if all providers offer BBFS/BB anal by taking all do precautions. But, seeing someone who you know offers BBFS/BB anal is reckless at best.

In the end it is a numbers game, by running from those known not to always play safe with there clients, you reduce your odds of catching an STD. There is enough risks in this game as it is, no need to add any.

Now everyone play safe for all our sakes.

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OneGent1720 reads

There is a big difference between a provider that might BB an SO and a provider that BB clients. It's all a numbers game. The odds of someone having contracted something when you KNOW she offers BB as a service are higher. Therefore, as with most of the hobby, this is a calculated risk and now that you know another factor the risk numbers in your big head should now be more than anyone in this hobby should tolerate.

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HobbyDave559 reads

I'm with you Swim. Definitely NOT the norm, and I would also run the other way. As great as it might feel at the time, it is just not worth the risk.

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Ripped_Van_Winkle664 reads

It is much more common then most people want to admit around here.
No, they generally do not tell you on the first meeting. It is usually offered after two or more if it is offered at all.

I tend to stay away from providers who offer it, but what is more important is YOUR decision to stay covered up. Most of the time you will not know if they perform BBFS or not. Therefor, protect yourself by always covering up.

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ShakingtheSheets768 reads


As others indicated, The bottom line is that you are not going to know who does and who does not offer it. I am fairly sure I have had a session or two with some ladies over the years who have engaged in BBFS with clients or in their civilian dating world. (and who knows, perhaps BB Anal). Don't take any chances; ever...always use protection.

Now no lady I have ever had a session with has admitted openly that she has in the past or would consider partaking in BBFS in the future. I prob. would not go back to any provider who did admit to such practice. It shows a lack of concern for her own health and a lack of concern for the clients that she sees.

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Bostonguy571022 reads

Many women who provide are also having bare back sex with SOMEONE.  If it's not with you then what do you have to worry about?

She may be stringing you along to get your business or she may be serious. Only you can decide if your concerns are enough to keep you away.

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keystonekid700 reads

the gun loaded?  I'm not taking that chance.

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tallyguy1538 reads

Not even covered.  This one is a walking cesspool.

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