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No im sorry i meant for him to bring his own but ask the provider if its ok when its time for that. I shouldve made it more clear sorry.

Posted By: nahtynikkey
I hope you're not serious.... Some ladies are allergic or have sensitivities to particular brands. You put on one of those brands, your session will more than likely end quite abruptly. I personally cannot tolerate Trojan or Durex.. they cause a painful, burning sensation(something with the particular lubricant in those brands). Ladies bring their preferred brand of condom for a reason.  
   
 Had a gent once bring what I though was just regular Magnums, in the box sealed, so let him use them(even though I had my own). Turns out they weren't regular Magnums, but the "twisted" kind with the "tingling" lubricant on them.. talk about painful, & couldn't work for the next 2 days until the swelling went down(allergic to the tingling lubricants).  
   
 Always ask.. never assume.  
   
Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
The answer is resounding YES.. If something that goes on your dick suits better for you, then by all means go ahead. Don't even need to ask her the question....

Providers and clients, let us discuss this topic.
If clients bring condoms which fit their little guy better, will provider accept this.

I guess no easy answer to this one. Just wonder if it is appropriate to ask ladies about this quesiton.

The answer is resounding YES.. If something that goes on your dick suits better for you, then by all means go ahead. Don't even need to ask her the question....

I hope you're not serious.... Some ladies are allergic or have sensitivities to particular brands. You put on one of those brands, your session will more than likely end quite abruptly. I personally cannot tolerate Trojan or Durex.. they cause a painful, burning sensation(something with the particular lubricant in those brands). Ladies bring their preferred brand of condom for a reason.  

Had a gent once bring what I though was just regular Magnums, in the box sealed, so let him use them(even though I had my own). Turns out they weren't regular Magnums, but the "twisted" kind with the "tingling" lubricant on them.. talk about painful, & couldn't work for the next 2 days until the swelling went down(allergic to the tingling lubricants).  

Always ask.. never assume.  

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
The answer is resounding YES.. If something that goes on your dick suits better for you, then by all means go ahead. Don't even need to ask her the question....

because I got my own condom...

And if this is truly a concern, then this be better communicated either through her website or email..

I have been in a situation where the girl didn't even have condoms, and she didn't tell me until it was too late. I hate to dress up and run to the gift shop to get one. Gladly it was in the middle of the day and they were still open.

So.. a provider should have on her website, "Sorry, no Trojan or Durex condoms, as I am allergic".. yea, LE would have a ball with that one, lol.  

@Mya, I was responding to Curly, not you sweetie:)  

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
because I got my own condom...  
   
 And if this is truly a concern, then this be better communicated either through her website or email..  
   
 I have been in a situation where the girl didn't even have condoms, and she didn't tell me until it was too late. I hate to dress up and run to the gift shop to get one. Gladly it was in the middle of the day and they were still open.

No im sorry i meant for him to bring his own but ask the provider if its ok when its time for that. I shouldve made it more clear sorry.

Posted By: nahtynikkey
I hope you're not serious.... Some ladies are allergic or have sensitivities to particular brands. You put on one of those brands, your session will more than likely end quite abruptly. I personally cannot tolerate Trojan or Durex.. they cause a painful, burning sensation(something with the particular lubricant in those brands). Ladies bring their preferred brand of condom for a reason.  
   
 Had a gent once bring what I though was just regular Magnums, in the box sealed, so let him use them(even though I had my own). Turns out they weren't regular Magnums, but the "twisted" kind with the "tingling" lubricant on them.. talk about painful, & couldn't work for the next 2 days until the swelling went down(allergic to the tingling lubricants).  
   
 Always ask.. never assume.  
   
Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
The answer is resounding YES.. If something that goes on your dick suits better for you, then by all means go ahead. Don't even need to ask her the question....

Don't forget, she's going to "feel it too." She may have certain brands she can't tolerate, eg.
Likewise, if the brand she provides feels/fits well for you - ask her what it was. Then next time bring some with you to a provider.

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Condoms that are too big can slip off during coitus.

...click on the number 2 (page number) in the right corner. Then scroll down some & look for a post by capebeon on the same subject. He received answers that will help you. There is a search function here as well. Click the search button on the right above the first thread. Enter the key word or phrase change the number of day to 300 or more, click search. You will get a lot of hits. You will surely get the one I pointed out. This is quicker than waiting on us to answer.

You can bring your own condoms but be prepared for her to refuse them. It's a good idea to have some for back up though.

I routinely bring my own, sealed 3 packs.  Which I place on the bed side table before washing up...  so she can check if she wants to.  That said, I respect providers rights to use only products that have been under her control.  I've never been declined, though one said "I have them." I replied  "I prefered the extra cost thin ones".  
Having them with me, prevents some problem if she runs out or one needs replacing mid-action.  
I started bring my own after a Fav called me back...  I was enroute on the highway...  and asked me to pick some up.  (Offered to reimburse me.)  But it meant gettingoff the highway in a strange town & still could not find a premium product...  and ended up a half hour late (which was not held against me).   If I'd been close on time, it could have been a problem...  and I didn't care for the numbing inner tubes I'd had to settle for.

Im new to this site and im a provider but i have to reply to this, if you have one that better fits you and you feel safe useing it it shouldnt be a problem unless you poke holes in it or something. People have done that before to providers so as long as she can make sure there arent any hols in it than there shouldnt be a problem.

I thought she was about to refuse mine but we ended up using them.  I'd rather throw a box in the trash unopened than have to run out because she doesn't have any or it needs replacing.  It is the least cost of a date.  
Because I research throughly, I haven't had a 'no condom scam' lately but it does act as a deterent.

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