Wouldn't be easier to give the directions the first time. I read the newbie manuall and didn't see why.  Thanks!

for your arrival.

There are too many things she might need to finish up to list.

With agencies the same thing applies, the agent calls the lady, than when it's right up you go.

I guess.

Because I don't want to give out my specific location and then have someone NCNS on me. Now I have no idea what stranger is running around there knowing exactly where I am. Scary thought!

So I first give directions that will get him to the right block. When the gentleman arrives, I can see him when he calls me. Now I know he isn't a flake, and I can give him the right information so he can knock on the right door.

A side benefit of this is that it takes exactly 2 minutes from the time he steps out of his car to get to my front door (I've timed it). I use those two minutes to gargle some mouthwash, check my hair, spritz some body spray (the kind that doesn't rub off), and freshen my lipstick, so that I look as though I just finished getting ready the moment he arrived.

that makes sense   Thanks!!

I just don't like the idea that the guys know my adress right away

the exact location, room #, only comes at the last moment.

in the am I require a confirmation phone call so that I know we are still on as planned..Then I can go about my day preparing for our meeting.

Now as far as the 2 call..call #1 is when you leave where you are coming from and I will give you directions to a certain location.  I will also ask you how long will it take before you get there.  Then I know how much time I have to finish sprucing myself up and making sure my "room" is all in order with candles lite and music playing..call #2 gives you final directions to the gate, as I have to let you in..

I, like many ladies, will not give you a specific address leaving too much time in between.  It is just not a safe thing for us to do..I am sure you understand..

Bella

It's a final screening.  I've often realized that a lady could see me when I made the second call.  Once I called from the wrong end of the parking lot.  She said "I can't see you."  I told her where I was, she had me drive to the correct entrance.  She's now a Fav.  
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AND in my imagination I think it is harder for leo to pin me down right away

1st call or email I book it and confirm, the 2nd will be a reconfirmation(making sure on the day of appt that you are still good togo)

If you cancel then I havent given you any info..its for safety really. I just dont like too many people knowing where to locate me.

if I book an appt tuesday morning for Tuesday night, I will still wait till a few hours before to give out incall info, for purely the same reasons.

Another reason is trying to avoid LE.  If they don't know the intersection or general area of the location of the incall it makes it really hard for them to "set up" on you.  Firstly, they don't know that provider is going through with the appointment until 1hr before so they have to get a little team together and ready quickly.  Then, you might not be in that departments jurisdiction and that makes it near impossible for them to get ahold of whoever and get them on you in that short of time.  

Also, we don't want folks showing up early or hanging out in the lobby.  Believe me, it happens.  Guys have our picture and know what we look like and we have no idea about them.  The last thing I need is for a client to show up 45 mins early and see my walking in and approach me...