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Re: When a provider says "I'm a very open minded" in her ad, is that code for something?
tyciol 1461 reads
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I would not assume it means anything, the best way is probably to ask her. I'm guessing it means she is flexible and open to your suggestions, but you would still have to run things by her, right?

Sarnia4147 reads

Is "open minded" like "gfe" that has some parameters on its definition?  What does open minded mean?  She is open to threesomes without having to say so? Or anything kinky goes?  Dangerous high risk sex acts? Toys? How open is open?  Is there some checklist or menu that I should know about that goes along with "open minded" to give me a few ideas?

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xc222ea2815 reads

I see this sort of language on CL regularly. To me, the only way to have any confidence in the range of services offered is the TER reviews of a well-reviewed provider. Anything else can just be marketing and who knows what you'll get.

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balathazar4029 reads

I think "open minded" means she is open to a variety of gentlemen not sex acts/kinkiness/toys etc. I think it means she has no racial/age/size of beer belly restrictions.

For all the other things you are wondering about, you need to read her reviews. The juicy details will tell you what you want to know. If you don't have VIP then get it, the cost is so low as compared to this hobby that it is worth it.

If she doesn't have reviews, and you want to TOFTT then you can find those things out as you ask her questions laying in bed with her.

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xxmeowbabyxx3032 reads

is to go by her reviews. I really don't know what saying 'I'm open minded' would mean. It could mean something different to each person.

It could mean so many things....even BB.Or something as innocent as greek. So please, go by her reviews.

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Nikki_Greedy1529 reads

Meaning you are non-judgmental toward people in general..

One may also be more 'open' to advanced levels of play.. Excluding risky behavior of course...

However you may find those that state they are 'open-minded' are more 'narrow' than they are 'open' on some subjects and will still sling judgment sometimes..
I am about as open-minded as one can be but I am not an exception to this rule..
After all we are human and we all have flaws..

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JustATransGirl1913 reads

I think it can pretty much mean anything from being open to various sexual arrangements to not discriminating.  And really has no use other than as ad filler.

As for me, I sometimes use it in the reverse.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

Related Link: http://www.justatransgirl.com

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GaGambler1825 reads

Open minded means no more than, "you will get laid". Upscale gentleman means, "you will get paid".

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secksitaim1482 reads

Thanks for this reply.  I was actually wondering about the "upscale gentleman" thing myself.

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keystonekid2756 reads

to read the juicy details of the reviews as well as PM hobbyists (or ladies for that matter) to make specific inquiries.  Do your homework and you will not be disappointed.

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tyciol1462 reads

I would not assume it means anything, the best way is probably to ask her. I'm guessing it means she is flexible and open to your suggestions, but you would still have to run things by her, right?

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Greg_H923 reads

Call me.

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