I have seen her before but only for an hour.
The rate is the main factor in deciding how long the appointment would be.
The problem is that this well reviewed provider doesn't have a website. In fact we never discussed money at all. I put the amount on her TER profile (500) in an envelope, she acted as if it didn't exist. Based on those 2 things I feel that she would rather not talk about it. I know I don't like to talk about money in this situation.
Here are some options I came up.
500 x hours = rate.
Get over reluctance and just ask.
Only see her only for one hour.
A discount on a 4 hour date would be nice, but also the certainty of knowing everyone is happy with (or even knows before getting there) the arrangement even more important. Knowing clearly what she wants would be preferable and make everything easier.
Writing this made me realize that there is no way for me go through with it without knowing exactly how much to give before I go.
So my question is, what the best way to bring up a touchy subject. Should I call or email? Are the euphemism best?
Sorry if this was on the long side, but I really would like some help on how to approach this.
Thanks for your advice.
Dude, if you have seen her before then don't even think about not asking. She knows you, you aren't LE and it is perfectly fine to ask. Heck, she will be delighted that you want another visit.
Now as for the rate. It should go down/hour some for multiple hours. For instance I saw a lady recently who's one hour rate was 200 but her two hour rate was 350 (a 50 dollar discount in the second hour). This seems to be the norm for ladies reducing the hourly rate a little for more than one hour.
Now don't be shy, and ask away. She won't bite unless you want her too!!!!
Good luck!!...DB8
If you have seen her before, I say ask when you book the appointment. If it isn't clearly stated on her website, there is no way to know how much to leave.
I usually ask when making an extended appointment.
Only caveat is don't word it in such a way that you are looking for or expecting a discount for extended play time.
Then, when you are confirming via phone call, ask her for a number. If you have seen her before, she probably won't have a problem answering, and if she has a favorable rate structure for longer dates, this is the only way to find out.
If you are uncomfortable about mentioning numbers, your other alternative is to PM other hobbyists whom have reviewed her, and get input from them regarding longer sessions. Can't hurt to ask...
I would not ask her in any PM or E-mail. However, I would bring up the issue in the next one hour appointment. Usually you get a price break with longer appointment. However a few ladies only want short appointments. Hence, they don’t have an incentive to give a price break.
Never assume the amount on her TER review is current. That was the donation on her first review. It could have gone up or down since then.
You have met once, ask her. You can ask in an email, if that is your primary communication with her, "what is your rate for x hours?" Just don't ask about specific sex acts.
BTW price should not be a "touchy subject" to her, she is a professional, and expects payment.
I really enjoyed our date last time. If I were to see you for a 4-hr. dinner date, can we make it work for 1200? [put whatever figure you feel comfortable with in the blank]
I enjoyed your company so much last time we met that I find that 1 hour simply isn't enough. What could I expect to pay for 3 hours of your time?
It's funny listening to this. So far by the time I am through seeing a lady for an hour--we can laugh and talk about anything including price and maybe politics. Now that's scarier. Tell me if I am wrong ladies but last i knew you were human and like to talk? You have already been with her so you should be able to call, chew the fat a little and ask her.