Fairly new to this site and hobby. So, I meet you, we make a transaction, you say "I'll be right back, make yourself comfortable". So, when you come back, should I be undressed, partially undressed, let you do it?

"Get comfortable" for me usually means "get nekkid and get face-down on the massage table." Or that's how I've always taken it and no one has ever corrected me.

It's going to really depend on you and the provider. Different providers have different ways of doing things. Some will take the cue from you while others will be more active.

For example, one provider I've seen offered a drink and we chatted for a bit to get to know each other before she asked me what I wanted to do for the "intimate part". Another one got me into her suite and practically ripped off her clothes and asked me to do the same then start shagging right away and I actually had to remind her about the donation lol.

Plus it depends on you too of course. Some people prefer to get naked right away, others prefer to slowly get undressed in tandem with the provider. Lots of providers will respect your preference.

In short, there's no hard and fast rule and you kind of have to play it by ear when meeting a new lady especially if you're a new hobbyist. The newbie FAQ is really helpful to give you a basic idea of what to expect.

"Get comfortable" means "If you are not naked when I come out of the bathroom I am going to assume that you are a cop and leave".

In my opinion, undressing one another is part of the  art of seduction. Wouldn't you agree? If I were a gentleman, I would speak up and take control of that situation...unless of course, you would rather undress yourself.

Regarding another comment I read previous to mine, about having a drink together and then her asking you what you'd like to do intimately. Maybe, I'm in the minority here...but I never ask the gentleman, "Now, what would you like to do?" I take the initiative, discern their body language etc. and let it flow naturally. Thus far, I've never had one single complaint!

To bad I live on the left side of the country! I can't imagine anyone complaining about you! What's the old saying "go with the flow"

and like her to undress me.  This is a great way to start the foreplay which is a big part of the seduction process.

thats how I like it. It makes me uncomfortable when a man sits there taking everything off, then placing it neatly on a chair.
I advertise gfe, to me it should be pulling clothes off while making out.

A majority of the encounters I've had start with small talk and then some candle lighting or dancing (yes some providers have asked me to) and on to slowly undressing each other. Lots of kissing and touching as we both help each other get naked. I much prefer this to getting there, handing off the donation only to have her exit to the bathroom asking me to "get comfortable." I've had this happen to me and it usually kills the fantasy because then it is just business.

if I have too much in my pockets.  I rather the rest comes off in foreplay.