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Re: What they can or can't do...
hungry1951 29 Reviews 1285 reads
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is probably not the same as what they do and don't do. There are a lot of myths out there as far as "They can't do that". When the so called rules are bent to someone's satisfaction, the bottom line is that they can do pretty much as they please. My guess is that she probably wasn't LE, but you might want to back up just a bit, and try looking somewhere other than CL, at least until you get your feet wet.

Try joining one of the verification sites. You've already found your way to TER, so stay here.

asmithnh2649 reads

I'm a newbie, and I have recently been in contact with a provider off of CL. I can't find a review of them here, and I just want to see if what she is telling me adds up. he didn't want to verify who I was at all, And when the question of if either of us were LE came up, she tole me that LE can't send a nude pic on themselves, and sent me one to prove she wasn't LE. My question is itf that is indeed true. I am terrible sorry if this is already posted somewhere.

Maybe not LE, but very well could be B&S or rob. You are living dangerously with someone with no reviews and little or no verification process.

is probably not the same as what they do and don't do. There are a lot of myths out there as far as "They can't do that". When the so called rules are bent to someone's satisfaction, the bottom line is that they can do pretty much as they please. My guess is that she probably wasn't LE, but you might want to back up just a bit, and try looking somewhere other than CL, at least until you get your feet wet.

Try joining one of the verification sites. You've already found your way to TER, so stay here.

a .com site
no reviews ...

Is it a she or a he ?

"He" didnt want to verify you at all ?
"she" told you that LE...

sending pics back and forth doesnt mean one isnt LE

That line about "police can't do this" started with the movie Hardcore back in the 80's.  Maybe police cannot do certain things.  However, assume third parties assisting them (e.g., a provider who got busted and is now assisting LE) can.

If you live anywhere near a major metropolitan area, you can probably find 50 absolutely gorgeous well-reviewed reputable local providers on TER.  This doesn't remove all risk that a provider isn't working with LE, obviously.  However, it reduces the likelihood to near zero.

Why say, "I can have any one of 50 terrific, relatively safe providers.  So I'll go with #51, with my eyes wide shut"?

asmithnh1155 reads

Thanks for the help, I should have just done what many have said here, and trusted my gut.Thankfully I didn't, nor am I going to meet with her. It was a female provider, sorry I forgot to mention that. Again, thanks for the help everyone

Since you are a newbie just move on to a well reviewed provider. You will be better off than with this girl from CL.

I generally do not trust any ads on CL. There a just too many rob on CL. Stick with provider reviewed here on TER and that have ads on CV, which is more trust worthy than CL.

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