What if, due to nervousness or other reasons, you cannot get hard enough for penetration during your visit? I imagine this could almost be as uncomfortable for the provider. What is the best way to handle this situation? Would it be appropriate to ask for a HR at least?
The more you worry about your erection the less likely he will rise to the occassion. Focus on the many ways of enjoying the company of a beautiful lady, feel free to tell her what you think will feel best in the moment (she may have some good suggestions too!) and keep your focus on the experience, not a goal.
If you are hiking to a mountain peak do you really want all of your focus on the pinnacle, missing the beauty of the path itself?
That is actually a beautiful sentiment...for that matter, sometimes I like the path so much I just roll around in the dirt for a few hours and say to hell with the pinnacle.
Erection, orgasm, etc. are generally thought of as autonomic responses. And they ARE, because they can be triggered in paraplegics.
However, in men with an intact spinal column, signals from the brain can override the autonomous responses. That means you can have not just psychological impotence, but psychological anorgasmia as well.
My advice is to be "in the moment." That is, to pay attention to your perceptions and sensation that are real and present at the moment, and use these to displace other thoughts from your mind.
Here is an article on this idea from a largely female perspective, but it is also conceptually applicable to men.
Feel what makes you feel pleasure and stay in that moment. The rest will come naturally. Even a nice bbbj on a less than rigid tool can be extremely pleasurable.
Also go back to the same provider at least one more time - a lot of people are nervous when they meet up the first time....even the provider is a bit nervous cause who knows what you will be like from her point of view. Happened to me but second time was sweet. also if you are over 40 or so viagra might be a confidence builder too - it does work
It's happened to a few guys and some have told me before hand they had that problem. But ask how you can please her if that's important to you or guide her to other things you'd like to do for the rest of your time together.
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