So here's the deal, I started dating this girl, about a month after we started dating I found out she is an escort...crazy right! So i made a choice to keep seeing her. Now I'm conflicted cause months later she has been telling me that she never goes all the way with clients. I'm struggling to believe it though. Am i being completely naive in believing her or is this a def possibility? She tries to sell me on the idea that she is more of a therapist in her sessions. And that very rarly does anything happen. I just don't know what to believe. Anyone have thoughts on this?

but to answer your question, yes it is "possible" but how likely it is depends of course on what kind of escort she is. There are a lot of "massage only" girls who only give HJ's or BJ's at the most, OTOH, if you are dating a girl like the girl you reviewed, my first thought is to say "lucky you" and my second thought is to say "No fucking way is she NOT fucking her clients". lol

She just constantly tells me that they are all made up and people do it at her request to make her look good. So I guess I am also wondering how legit the reviews are. As far as my review....there is a story behind it. I can honestly handle it IF she is being honest and telling me everything. I feel like 100% open communication is the only way this would work. I just feel like there is to many things that aren't being said for some reason.

For her to claim that she gets every guy to say she is doing FS (or whatever "all the way" means here) when in fact, she isn't, and no reviewer is pointedly remarking on this fact, just doesn't add up.   At least one guy is going to complain that he didn't get what he signed up for.

If you can't trust her and have a hard time believing her.....then you should move on.I would never stay with someone that I couldn't trust.Its a recipe for disaster

Ok so here is the thing, I honestly have accepted what she does. It's fine. The issue I have is that she isn't fully honest with me about it. Would I be better served not asking for full disclosure. Don't get me wrong...I don't want details. I just want to know if it was like a full on all the way type deal. If she tells me that then I have no problem trusting her. But when she isn't fully honest with me on that I feel like there are other things I need to worry about. And I want to not worry. If she was fully honest I would be ok with it. I just want to know the truth. I really can handle it. So with all that said...do you think I should confront her and just ask her or leave it alone?

Thanks! Best way to go out is with a bang lol

I'm sure you could find volunteers here, if you don't have a buddy you're comfortable talking to about it.

She has probably had some bad experiences in the past with jealous boyfriends who couldn't deal with the reality of her job, and is trying to protect your ego. Even you may be telling yourself that you are okay with it now, as I did under similar circumstances many years ago, but it will probably get to you eventually.  

First issue I have is the fact that you said you've been dating her for a month and she just told you.  I'm not sure what the timeline for something like that is, but I would think it would be something that should be disclosed immediately.  I have dated/had relationships with escorts but that came after we had seen one another a few times.  I will say this, don't ask questions to things you can accept the answers to.  Either walk away or accept what she does for a living.  Another thing, if you feel she is being dishonest, then you should reevaluate things and figure out if this is the best situation for you to be involved in.  Sitting around wondering and second guessing her, all the while she is trying to persuade you isn't the best circumstances to start a relationship.  

That's so true. So who is gonna help me figure it out. I honestly don't mind her doing what she is doing. The thing that screws me up is the dishonestly...so who is willing to go get her and see what's true or not?

Especially if you say you really don't care if she's FS. Avoid reading her reviews. Most of them are exaggerated anyway. For example, she could be swallowing a massive load while giving BBBJ with two fingers in her ass and thumb in her pussy.  But you will never know.

In all likelihood the reviews are 90% true.  She's an escort, that's what they do.  It's how they pay their bills.  Do you want her to stop?  Will you support her if she does?  You have NO right to demand this unless you are paying her bills.  
This is where the rubber hits the road (appologies to Firestone).  

Did someone mention Jaba the Hut?

She just left for an "appt".  I just don't know is I can handle this shit

Yeah I'm not sure I can handle it. I can handle her being honest but I fell like if she isn't there is a reason why. I've always been worried about the "one" I didn't know about.  I really do care about her but I honestly fell like there is something not being said because she can't accept it let alone ask me to. She is very new to the business.  I just don't want to be her normal!

we can do further research for you.

Does she have an add or website?

I met her completely outside of this...basically I only do this cause her!

Reading this thread, you are not emotionally ready to deal with this situation.  You'll end up driving yourself crazy dealing with this.  It is better to end it and walk away then to continue down this path.  

Save yourself some emotional sanity.  You'll be driving yourself crazy wondering the "what ifs?", "is she?!".  Save her the trouble too, because she told you what she does.  

It has the best ending of any movie ever made, also.

I am guessing you have seen the reviews that have been written and you have wrote one yourself. Yes your are being naive my friend. Pull your head out of her or your rear end. Don't believe me believe the reviews written on her, those are made up.  I am not saying she does not want to be with you because her tell you about what she does was a huge risk to begin with. I going to say she really likes being with you and not sure at this point why she is not giving the whole truth. I could be wrong and she could be an escort only doing BBBJ or HJ's. I think if she really is going all the way her telling you the truth and her being able to let it off her mind would be a good thing for you both. Well if you to part ways because of this then next as I always say. Happy Hobbying man.

To be honest I don't think you handle  this on a long term basis. Unless you accept the whole package.....and not be worrying about what she does or does not.....contact some of her reviewers for clarity.