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Re: Well that, and many ladies do not enjoy toys. I much prefer...
katrinakay 2214 reads
posted
1 / 15

so.... if I'm going to an outcall and the gentleman asked to call and during the conversation he say "bring toys" and don't forget stop by the pharmacy.... I am too paranoid and it may be a set up? upscale hotel in dc.  P411 client.
thanks in advance for your help

keystonekid 114 Reviews 520 reads
posted
2 / 15
katrinakay 687 reads
posted
3 / 15

p411, google, phone number, full name. several oks on p411....

DJ1985 21 Reviews 550 reads
posted
4 / 15

If you are uncomfortable with the discussion, and I can see why you might be, call and tell him it's not going to work out. You don't have to go through with a date that makes you feel unsafe.

harborview 10 Reviews 597 reads
posted
5 / 15

but agreed, if you are uncomfortable either research further or decline the invitation.  If I was indiscrete, I'd expect to be cancelled on.

Privateprovider 566 reads
posted
6 / 15

Hi Katrina,
He really shouldn't be saying things like that as everyone else mentioned.  Sometimes they include the "bring toys" in email if you checked that off on your 411 profile.  I have NEVER had anyone say "go to the pharmacy" though.  The combination would spook me too. Does he have multiple ok's on 411? Are they recent?  Under 6 months or so? Read the self help on 411 that explains how their code is made up (john-x-xx-xxxx) Gina recommends checking code or extra screening.  Don't trust upscale hotel per say. Overall if you feel uncomfortable take a pass and trust your gut. May be helpful to join the provider only board when you can, lots of great screening tips.  

Posted By: katrinakay
so.... if I'm going to an outcall and the gentleman asked to call and during the conversation he say "bring toys" and don't forget stop by the pharmacy.... I am too paranoid and it may be a set up? upscale hotel in dc.  P411 client.  
 thanks in advance for your help.  
 

Jstgttnstrtd 18 Reviews 580 reads
posted
7 / 15

...but from what you've said, I'd say the odds seem very good that he's okay.
But if you aren't comfortable, then pass.
Both parties need to feel safe in order for a good time to be had.

oralconniseur 10 Reviews 458 reads
posted
8 / 15

don't feel comfortable, then politely cancel. Being discreet is #1, so he must be an idiot or LEO to be saying those things. No sense in taking any chances, as there are many hobbyist who are not an idiot like that guy.

TalkToTrees 484 reads
posted
9 / 15

to me. why would he be demanding you to bring stuff?

More times than not... providers already have the toys and the covers ready to go. Why even bother mentioning it?  

Now, I do bring my own brand of condoms due to my sensitivity to latex. I bring them to the session and explain to the lady that I prefer to use my preferred brand this due to my allergic reaction to latex. Every lady has been cool about it.  

If I were you... I'd pass on this guy... sounds too spooky to me...

The Forest Waits
 
Posted By: katrinakay
so.... if I'm going to an outcall and the gentleman asked to call and during the conversation he say "bring toys" and don't forget stop by the pharmacy.... I am too paranoid and it may be a set up? upscale hotel in dc.  P411 client.  
 thanks in advance for your help.  
 

lumbermanxxx 492 reads
posted
10 / 15

Seems like he should be fine with the screening you've done....Have fun!

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 489 reads
posted
11 / 15

Talk like that is grounds for being immediately bumped into the "too dumb to fuck" category. Good lord.

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 449 reads
posted
12 / 15

...the real thing!

   The OP mentioned that he is P411 verified.  Does she mention in her profile that she is into toy play?  If, she did, that is a given and he should not have asked.  My profile tells gentlemen that toy play is not offered.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 411 reads
posted
13 / 15

Um ... HELL NO and I'm a client. He's either stupid or it's a set up

floyd1039 10 Reviews 468 reads
posted
14 / 15

I am not sure where you live but the "Stop by the pharmacy" thing. Where I live, that would probably result in the dial tone and a blocked number. Escalation by LEO.
Good day and be safe

lanasummer11 See my TER Reviews 421 reads
posted
15 / 15

He must had an experience when the girl showed up without a cover, because she forgot to buy it .How would I know I should bring toys if he does not tell me ?I dont bring them on every outcall date.

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