I'm new at this, looking for p4p, what are some golden rules I should follow when on the prowl?

Read the Newbie manual. All the information in there are the things that will keep you safe and will allow you to have a great hobby experience.

You will need to be a vip member to read the reviews, but it is well worth it. There are other escort review web sites, do a search and you can locate the other review boards.