I thought I remember reading on one of the boards a while back that, at least according to this one provider, that a lot of clients didn't want to engage in FS.  Many wanted just a massage, HJ or BJ or even just talking.  

I wonder how common that really is.  I ask because as I consider dipping my toe into the hobby pool and look to take it slowly, I wonder if it would be viewed as strange to engage a provider and then not consummate the relationship.  

How do you even bring it up?  When?

it is not that unusual at all.  So, no need to feel uncomfortable at all about it.  Have no idea the percentages of no FS, but my guess is, it's a lot higher than most of us would imagine.  (Providers are my sources, no names given)  Since I always want FS, I have no idea how you would tell her, except just be up front about it.  Right, girls?

Swim

but it's up to you on how to use the time, as long as you are paying the full rate.  You don't want to mention something explicit before meeting.  Even once you are with the provider, you want to be discreet about what you say.

As long as you are respectful and fresh, the lady should have no problem. Why not try a fbsm
first. You should match your desire with the escorts menu. BTW, a favorite friend of mine, told me she used to have an older client who just wanted to snuggle and talk and he paid her full one hour rate. Go figure,Good luck.

I started with a massage plus extras indy lady...  as things warmed up, our services went further until we now do a full range of activities consistant with her menu.  I would recommend this approach.  It worked for me.  I continue to see her occasionally, several years later.
skb

Does any provider that advertises GFE offer FBSM also?  The selection of providers that advertise in the body rub section on my town's eros or cityvibe is not that great.  The hot ones are all FS providers.

You bring it up simply by saying "I am only looking for a BJ".  She will be happy to oblige.  Of course you should not expect your time with the lady to cost any less for limited activity than it would for full service.

You are the customer.  You are not REQUIRED to do anything that you don't want to do other than wearing a condom when the lady asks you to and being clean and polite...and paying of course.  Some guys just want a massage.  Some guys just want a BJ.  Some guys don't want a BJ at all!  Some guys just want to talk.  Intimacy and pleasure take on many forms and we are not all looking for the same experience.

I see many men who want massage, or just enjoy each other orally. I have even seen one gentleman who just wanted to talk and cuddle for two hours, he had medicall problems that prevented an erection but missed touching a woman.
Whatever makes you happy, whatever you desire, that's what you are paying for.

There are those who offer FBSM...  some in addition, for some that is all they offer.  On a General Board, there must be someone offering this somewhere.  I found a real gen for this just the other day.
If You look on the review section, you'll see massage providers.  That's where to research.  You'll need VIP to read the complete reviews.
Good Luck,
skb

Though you won't necessarily get any break on the rate.

Some are better than others, but some really surprised me at how good they are at it.

I have had plenty of appts that didnt end in FS,,but the guys were 100percent happy! Just because we were having sooo much fun doing other things, and they didnt want to stop or they exploded and couldnt go for seconds...I am game for the whole 9 yards baby, I would never cut off a client.  Loving it!